Controlling Anger
Becoming angry is something beyond the control of people.【小题1】 Becoming angry can do a lot of damage,both mental and physical. However,there are methods for discovering how to control anger and not to suffer later.
·【小题2】 The moment you feel there are chances for you to become angry,get away from those circumstances(环境).In fact,there can be no better judge than you,for discovering what it is or who it is that makes you become angry,and then at that moment choosing to think about something else that can lighten your feelings.
·Keep a check on your breathing.【小题3】 By controlling the process of breathing,you can actually slow down your anger greatly. You can count till three as you breathe in,hold it for 3 seconds and again count till three while breathing out. You have to concentrate on the count as you do this and repeat this for as many times as required.
·【小题4】 For example, if you’re experiencing road rage while driving,you can choose to tell yourself that the person who overtook you by a vehicle was in a hurry as a result of some emergency and appreciate the fact that nothing major happened to your car. Repeat this form of self-talk to yourself every time you are in the middle of such an angry situation.
·Look for the support of other people.【小题5】 It needs to be clear right at the beginning as to why you are discussing your concerns with that individual. Let the other individual know what you want from him or her. After you’re done with your part of discussing about the circumstances,chances are that you’ll feel much better than before.
A.Talk to yourself positively. |
B.Come to a stop as soon as you are angry. |
C.Try to see the situation from a different view. |
D.You can also ask for help from the one you rely on. |
E.What you can do when you become angry is to breathe deeply. |
F.In fact, almost all people at one point of time become angry. |
G.You can imagine going to a place you consider to be calm as well as relaxing. |