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Why you shouldn't punish your kids for lying

Getting your children to stop lying is challenging. There are many influences（TV，movies and video games）in which lies are common. Children see parents lie to others，if only to be polite. Most parents add to that with tales about the lives and activities of Santa Claus or the tooth fairy. 【小题1】

The most common reactions to children who lie are explaining why it is wrong and punishments. 【小题2】 Here are three better tools supported by research to use instead.

Give praise: You could ask your child to say something that happened at school that is true. When your child obeys, praise him enthusiastically. Be specific. 【小题3】 and give your child a hug or a high five. Aim for one or two interactions（互动）like this a day. If you happen to "catch" your child in a lie，say something like，“That is not true and could get you in trouble outside of the home.”

Act as a model: Explicitly（明确地）tell the truth. This could be about something that happened when you were a child or something that happened during the day. It need not be dramatic. Another option is to play a game at dinner. Each person tells one thing that was true that day. Again，give a little praise to the child who normally lies if she plays along.

Decrease punishments and moralizing（说教）：They are unlikely to change behavior or develop the conduct you want. 【小题4】 Rather，use very mild punishments（light scolding，short loss of privileges，a brief timeout）. More severe punishments（shouting，taking away something for a week，hitting）are not more effective in actually changing the frequency of lying.

【小题5】 Usually they can be dropped by then. It is unlikely that lying will be completely removed，but with the right encouragement，it can be dramatically lessened.

A．It is not what that is，but about practice.

B．As ways of changing behavior，these are ineffective.

C．That does not mean ignoring，lying or letting it go.

D．“That was great！You told me what happened just like I asked. Wow！”

E．Try these procedures for two to three weeks and see where you are.

F．“You did a good job，but what you said was not what I'd like to know！”

G．Parents do this out of love，but for some children，lying can become a problem.

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Everyone wants to be truly happy.【小题1】For example，we should be true to ourselves，we should think positively，we should always smile，we should learn to be thankful and so on. To be a truly happy person，not only must we know what we should do，but also we have to keep these don’ts in mind.

Never rest on the past.

Your past is just a story. Everyone has a past often full of pain，disappointment，missed opportunities，and unfulfilled（未实现的）expectations.【小题2】If you rest on the past all the time，those unhappy things will always bother you and you won’t be happy forever.

【小题3】

Be grateful for what you have got. You could waste hours counting the things you would like to improve，which would only take you away from appreciating your real life.

Never stop improving yourself.

We are all different，and there is no perfect direction or path to our personal development. The whole point is to become the best version of you，and never stop taking lessons from your own life experiences.【小题4】

Never lose a sense of purpose in what you are doing.

Your time and power are limited，so spend them wisely and use your energy on something meaningful.【小题5】A life without a purpose i» a life without the sun. If you lose a sense of purpose，you will never be truly happy.

A．Never waste time.

B．Never focus on what is missing.

C．Being truly happy is rather difficult.

D．Finding a purpose helps you live a better life.

E．There are many ways for us to find happiness.

F．No matter what your past looks like，don’t let it influence you.

G．If you stop improving yourself，you will realize that your life will be meaningless gradually.

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How to Say Short-Term Goodbyes

Knowing when and how to say goodbye is often difficult, even in informal situations. But learning to say goodbye appropriately is a skill that will help you maintain（维持）your relationships. 【小题1】 Read on to learn how to recognize chances when you leave.

Recognize when to leave. When you’re at any kind of party or gathering, or even in a one-on-one conversation, it can be difficult to get away. Learning to recognize good chances to leave will make a short-term goodbye much easier. Notice if the crowd seems to be decreasing. 【小题2】

【小题3】 Overstaying your welcome is rude, but it can often be difficult to distinguish. People don’t like telling you that they’d like you to leave, so try to watch for signals. If the host of a party starts cleaning up, or withdraws from the conversation, gather your friends or belongings and make your exit.

Make plans to see each other again. Even saying “See you at school tomorrow” keeps the goodbye light and focused forward. If you haven’t already made plans, use it as a chance to make them. 【小题4】 Set up a coffee date or meeting for lunch later in the week if it makes the goodbye easier, but don’t promise anything you don’t want to do.

Tell the truth. It can be tempting to come up with a “good excuse” when you’re ready to leave. You don’t need to. 【小题5】 It doesn’t need to be any more complicated than that.

A．Watch body language.

B．Make your exit directly.

C．It’s also easier than it seems sometimes.

D．Even saying “See you soon” suggests just that.

E．However, it is not a good idea to tell the truth immediately.

F．If more than half the people have left, it might be a good time to leave.

G．If you want to leave, just say, “I’m going to go now. See you later.”

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A new study shows students who write notes by hand during lectures perform better on exams than those who use laptops(笔记本电脑)．
Students are increasingly using laptops for notetaking because of speed and legibility(清晰度)．But the research has found laptop users are less able to remember and apply the concepts they have been taught.
Researchers performed experiments that aimed to find out whether using a laptop increased the tendency to make notes “mindlessly” by taking down word for word what the professors said.
In the first experiment，students were given either a laptop or pen and paper. They listened to the same lectures and were told to use their usual notetaking skills. Thirty minutes after the talk，they were examined on their ability to remember facts and on how well they understood concepts.
The researchers found that laptop users took twice as many notes as those who wrote by hand. However，the typists performed worse at remembering and applying the concepts. Both groups scored similarly when it came to memorizing facts.
The researchers' report said，“While more notes are beneficial，if the notes are taken mindlessly，as is more likely the case on a laptop，the benefit disappears.”
In another experiment aimed at testing longterm memory，students took notes as before but were tested a week after the lecture. This time，the students who wrote notes by hand performed significantly better on the exam.
These two experiments suggest that handwritten notes are not only better for immediate learning and understanding，but that they also lead to superior revision in the future.
【小题1】More and more students favour laptops for notetaking because they can ________.

A．write more notes	B．digest concepts better
C．get higher scores	D．understand lectures better

【小题2】While taking notes，laptop users tend to be ________.

A．skilful	B．mindless
C．thoughtful	D．tireless

【小题3】The author of the passage aims to ________.

A．examine the importance of longterm memory

B．stress the benefit of taking notes by hand

C．explain the process of taking notes

D．promote the use of laptops

【小题4】The passage is likely to appear in ________.

A．a newspaper advertisement	B．a computer textbook
C．a science magazine	D．a finance report

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Holding on regret is like dragging the weight of the past with us everywhere we go. It consumes our _______, leaving less available for life in the present _______ we are constantly feeding an old issue. This attachment can _______ illness the same way watering a dead plant creates decay(腐烂). We know that something new and beautiful can grow in its place if we only prepare the soil and plant the right seeds. We also know that we create our lives from our _______, so focusing on the past may actually _______ a situation in our lives where we are _______ to make the choice again and again. We can choose to move _______ right now by applying what we have learned to the present and perhaps even sharing with others, _______ the energy into something that is constructive and creative for ourselves and others.
Forgiveness can heal _______. In meditation(冥想), we can ________ discussing the issue with the self of our past and ________ our forgiveness for the choice. ________, we can ask for ourselves' forgiveness for keeping them locked in that space of judgment for so long. We may also want to ask for ________ from anyone else who may have been ________ and perhaps offer our forgiveness. By replaying the event in our ________, we can choose a new ending using all that we now know. Imagine that you have actually gone back into the ________ and made this change, and then say goodbye to it. ________ your former self with a hug and bring the forgiveness and love back with you to the present. Since we are usually hard on ourselves, it is amazing how ________ healing it can be to offer ourselves love.
Keeping our minds and our energy fully in the present allows us to fuel our ________ and emotional well-being today. This action frees our energy to create the dreams we dream for the future.By ________ responsibility and action in the present, we can let go of the past.

B．performance

B．transforming

A．willingness

B．forgiveness

B．psychological

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