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Why you shouldn't punish your kids for lying

Getting your children to stop lying is challenging. There are many influences(TV,movies and video games)in which lies are common. Children see parents lie to others,if only to be polite. Most parents add to that with tales about the lives and activities of Santa Claus or the tooth fairy. 【小题1】

The most common reactions to children who lie are explaining why it is wrong and punishments. 【小题2】 Here are three better tools supported by research to use instead.

Give praise: You could ask your child to say something that happened at school that is true. When your child obeys, praise him enthusiastically. Be specific. 【小题3】 and give your child a hug or a high five. Aim for one or two interactions(互动)like this a day. If you happen to "catch" your child in a lie,say something like,“That is not true and could get you in trouble outside of the home.”

Act as a model: Explicitly(明确地)tell the truth. This could be about something that happened when you were a child or something that happened during the day. It need not be dramatic. Another option is to play a game at dinner. Each person tells one thing that was true that day. Again,give a little praise to the child who normally lies if she plays along.

Decrease punishments and moralizing(说教):They are unlikely to change behavior or develop the conduct you want. 【小题4】 Rather,use very mild punishments(light scolding,short loss of privileges,a brief timeout). More severe punishments(shouting,taking away something for a week,hitting)are not more effective in actually changing the frequency of lying.

【小题5】 Usually they can be dropped by then. It is unlikely that lying will be completely removed,but with the right encouragement,it can be dramatically lessened.

A.It is not what that is,but about practice.
B.As ways of changing behavior,these are ineffective.
C.That does not mean ignoring,lying or letting it go.
D.“That was great!You told me what happened just like I asked. Wow!”
E.Try these procedures for two to three weeks and see where you are.
F.“You did a good job,but what you said was not what I'd like to know!”
G.Parents do this out of love,but for some children,lying can become a problem.
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   Brain fitness has basic principles:variety and curiosity. When anything you do becomes second nature,you need to make a change.If you can do the crosswords(纵横字谜)in your sleep,it’s time for you to move on to a new challenge in order to get the best workout for your brain. Curiosity about the world around you,how it works and how you can understand it will keep your brain working fast and efficiently.【小题1】

Play Games

Brain fitness programs and games are a wonderful way to tease and challenge your brain. Sudoku,crosswords and electronic games can all improve your brain’s speed and memory. These games rely on logic,word skills,math and more.【小题2】 You’ll get more benefit by doing these games a little bit every day—spend 15 minutes or so,not hours.

Think Deeply

Thinking deeply every day is perhaps the single greatest thing you can do for your mind or body health.【小题3】

By creating a different mental state,you engage your brain in new and interesting ways while increasing your brain fitness.

Eat for Your Brain

【小题4】 Focus on fish oils from wild salmon(鲑),nuts such as walnuts,seeds such as flaxseed and olive oil. Eat more of these foods and less fats. Remove trans fats(反式脂肪)completely from your diet.

【小题5】

Stories are a way that we strengthen memories,explain events and share moments. Practice telling your stories,both new and old,so that they are interesting,attractive and fun. Some basic storytelling techniques will go a long way in keeping people’s interest both in you and in what you have to say.

A.Tell Stories Well
B.Eat as much as you can.
C.These games are also fun.
D.Learn Something from a Story
E.Your brain needs you to eat healthy fats.
F.Use the ideas below to help you seek for mental fitness.
G.Thinking deeply not only relaxes you,but gives your brain a workout.

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How to Say Short-Term Goodbyes

Knowing when and how to say goodbye is often difficult, even in informal situations. But learning to say goodbye appropriately is a skill that will help you maintain(维持)your relationships. 【小题1】 Read on to learn how to recognize chances when you leave.

Recognize when to leave. When you’re at any kind of party or gathering, or even in a one-on-one conversation, it can be difficult to get away. Learning to recognize good chances to leave will make a short-term goodbye much easier. Notice if the crowd seems to be decreasing. 【小题2】

【小题3】 Overstaying your welcome is rude, but it can often be difficult to distinguish. People don’t like telling you that they’d like you to leave, so try to watch for signals. If the host of a party starts cleaning up, or withdraws from the conversation, gather your friends or belongings and make your exit.

Make plans to see each other again. Even saying “See you at school tomorrow” keeps the goodbye light and focused forward. If you haven’t already made plans, use it as a chance to make them. 【小题4】 Set up a coffee date or meeting for lunch later in the week if it makes the goodbye easier, but don’t promise anything you don’t want to do.

Tell the truth. It can be tempting to come up with a “good excuse” when you’re ready to leave. You don’t need to. 【小题5】 It doesn’t need to be any more complicated than that.

A.Watch body language.
B.Make your exit directly.
C.It’s also easier than it seems sometimes.
D.Even saying “See you soon” suggests just that.
E.However, it is not a good idea to tell the truth immediately.
F.If more than half the people have left, it might be a good time to leave.
G.If you want to leave, just say, “I’m going to go now. See you later.”

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   The holidays can be one of the happiest times of the year. However, all of that holiday happiness comes with high costs. The good news? 【小题1】 Here are some ideas to get you started.

♦ Book your flight early and on “off” days.

The price of travel during the holiday season increases. However, strategically (战略性地) booking your flight can help save big on your airfare. 【小题2】 For Christmas, aim to fly on Dec. 17 or 18. This might allow you to escape the high fares.

♦ Make DIY gifts that people will actually like.

It’s possible to make gifts that are inexpensive but valuable. Homemade gifts offer a personal touch that a store-bought item can’t.【小题3】 Maybe you have an uncle who loves golf and you love to paint. You could paint him a portrait (画像) of his favourite golf course.

【小题4】

Instead of flying, you can use many other cheaper ways of travelling. One idea is to take a train back to your hometown, which offers both beautiful views and low prices. You can also make friends along the way with other locals who are heading for your hometown !

♦ Find other ways to celebrate.

【小题5】 You can find tree lighting ceremonies, Christmas light displays, free concerts, and perhaps charities where you can donate your time. There’s nothing like volunteering to help you to experience the real meaning of the holiday.

A.Make such kinds of gifts on your own.
B.Actually you can’t celebrate them smartly.
C.Find other ways to get home for the holidays.
D.Flying earlier will offer the most affordable fares.
E.There are lots of other ways to enjoy your holiday.
F.It’s not difficult to enjoy the holidays with lower costs.
G.The joy comes from spending quality time with your loved ones.

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   Communicating with your child's teacher is one way to help him succeed at school. But just how often should you contact the teacher,and what questions should you ask?How can you help your child succeed in school?

Jerry Parks,a social studies teacher is. to share his thoughts. Parks keeps in touch with parents through emails,class websites,and phone calls. " Parents who take an active interest in their children's work and school well-being are one of the biggest contributors to my students' success,"Parks says. Children of involved parents typically have higher self-esteem(自尊)and have fewer behavior problems in school. And students' grades usually improve when their parents become involved.

Parks suggests the top 6 ways parents can help their children succeed in school: first,make sure your child is at school every day possible. Missed work is generally more of a loss than made-up work is a gain;second,set a time and a place for your child to do homework. If he does not have homework,have him use the time to read;third,keep in touch with teachers,but don't do it too much. Most teachers appreciate parents caring enough to keep in touch a few times a term but do not appreciate parents expecting to contact on a regular basis. Besides,it seems appropriate to ask the teacher whether she thinks your child is giving his best effort in class and whether she has noticed any significant changes in your child's behavior or grades. More importantly,teach your child to build a character—it will improve social and academic skills more than anything else. Some things are simply wrong,and the world your child will grow up in will punish crimes,so give your child a head start. Last but not least,make time every day to talk with your child about the day's activities. Let him know you care,and really listen to what he has to say.

【小题1】Who is the passage intended for?
A.Students.B.Parents.
C.Teachers.D.Children.
【小题2】Children typically ________ if their parents become involved in their work.
A.show lower self-esteem
B.have more behavior problems
C.achieve more success
D.have fewer academic problems
【小题3】Which is closest in meaning to the underlined sentence in Paragraph 3?
A.It's better than nothing.
B.Sometimes the best gain is to lose.
C.No pain, no gain.
D.Losses make us more cautious.
【小题4】What can we learn from Parks' tips about the ways parents can help their children succeed in school?
A.Developing good habits is vital to a child's life.
B.Parents are expected to ask teachers any question.
C.Developing a character seems a waste of time.
D.Communication with your child means killing time.

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   You should always prepare for an interview whether you are about to face a traditional question-and-answer interview or a behavioral interview. There are things you can do before a behavioral interview that will put you at ease,make you feel and look more confident and make you stand out from the competition.

The first thing you must try to do is determine what competencies(技能)the prospective employer is looking for in a candidate(申请者). Carefully read through the job announcement even  if you've already done this. It usually includes clues about the type of candidate the employers are seeking. This information may simply be listed under job requirements or it may be hidden within the list of job duties. If it's the latter,you will have to figure out what competencies are needed to perform those duties.

Another way to learn what competencies the employer desires is to talk to a recruiter(招聘人员) if you get through one. You should also use your network to connect with people who know about the prospective employer and you will know what qualities he most values.

If you cant get definitive answers about the particular position for which you are applying, try to make some educated guesses about the qualities needed for similar jobs.

You can consult job announcements for similar positions to find out what qualities other employers are seeking.

Once you have figured out what competencies the employer wants, you will have to come up with specific examples of how you used them. Try to answer some of the sample questions that follow. Do not be unclear in your responses. You will have to give enough information to prove that you possess a particular competency.

【小题1】How will you know what competencies are needed if the information is hidden?
A.By figuring them out.
B.By asking the employer who he really wants.
C.By asking your family for help.
D.By reading job requirements.
【小题2】What does the underlined word in the 2nd paragraph mean?
A.Capable.B.Potential.
C.Promising.D.Hard-working.
【小题3】What is the passage mainly about?
A.What competencies the employer wants.
B.How to prepare for a behavioral interview.
C.What a behavioral interview is.
D.How to succeed in an interview.
【小题4】What will be followed by the passage?
A.Some sample questions.
B.Some suggested responses.
C.Competences needed.
D.Reference books needed.