Getting to know other people is a typical activity in our daily lives. Even if you're good with people,there are likely times when you're stuck for something more to say and start wondering what topic to bring up next. 【小题1】
Talk about the other person.
The biggest secret to being a good conversationalist is simply allowing the other people to talk about themselves. Why? 【小题2】
Ask about work.
This one can be a little tricky because the conversation could end up sounding like a job interview. Still, if you can handle it carefully and keep it short and sweet, it can lead to an interesting discussion.
【小题3】
This is where it starts to get more personal. It’s up to you to carry on the conversation using these questions in a proper way. Do you play or follow any sports? What do you like to read? What kind of music do you like?
Ask about their travels.
Ask the person where they’ve been. Even if they have never left their hometown, they will likely be happy to talk about where they want to go. If you had a chance to move to any other country, which one would it be and why? 【小题4】 How did you like it?
Know what to avoid.
You know the old rule: never talk about religion, politics, money, family problems, or women’s age with people you don’t know well. 【小题5】 So you should stay extremely clear.
A.Where did you go on your last vacation? |
B.Ask them what has happened in their life. |
C.Find out about their interests and hobbies. |
D.The risk of saying something rude is too high. |
E.Then how to come up with good conversation topics? |
F.It’s a subject they probably know well and feel comfortable with. |
G.You can't expect miracles to happen in the conversation with someone. |