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   Friends should always be honest with you, right? So when they lie, it can  be really hard to take. You want to trust your friends and that means knowing that they'll tell it to you straight no matter what it is. But a friend who lies isn't always trying to hurt you. Why does this happen?

Protect your feelings

One of the biggest reasons friends lie is simply to avoid hurting your feelings.

Some people don't understand the difference between being gently honest with a friend and being so straightforward(直接了当的)that they leave a verbal wound. They choose to avoid these two extremes in the form of a lie.

What you can do: Encourage your friends to be straight with you. No matter what their answer is, let them know you are grateful for it.

They feel embarrassed

Sometimes friends will lie about things in their life because they are too embarrassed to admit the truth. Maybe they are going through a rough time and they just don't want you to know about it.

What you can do: Avoid trying to badger(纠缠)your friend into telling you what's wrong. Instead, make it clear that you are there for them when and if they are ready to talk.

Avoid an argument with you

Perhaps your friend knows that if they tell you the truth, you'll get angry with them. Avoiding conflict is not always healthy for a friendship because it allows problems to grow over time. If you have a bad temper(脾气), your friend might try and avoid getting into an argument with you and instead just tell you what you want to hear.

What you can do: Make sure that if a friend tells you something unpleasant, you don't overreact. Consider what's being said and why your friend is telling you this. If you do end up arguing, do it in a respectable way.

Exclude you

Lying isn't always a sign that friends are trying to protect you, however. Sometimes they lie because they want to exclude you from their plans.

What you can do:When you find out with certainty that your friend is lying to you, try and face it. Be forewarned, however, that if a friend lies to begin with, he or she may lie when asked a direct question about his or her dishonesty. Go with your guts on this. If you feel your friend is lying because he or she doesn't want to be around you, that's your wake-up call to move on.

【小题1】According to the passage, friends sometimes lie _____________.
A.out of respect
B.in a straight way
C.under social influences
D.because the truth hurts
【小题2】When you find a friend lying, you are advised to _____________ .
A.let it go
B.take it personally
C.handle it respectably
D.break up with him or her .
【小题3】What is the implied meaning of the underlined part?
A.Have the courage to handle the situation.
B.Accept the truth that you are being lied to.
C.Go to have a fight with whoever lies to you.
D.Base your judgment on your understanding.
【小题4】What's the passage mainly about?
A.Ways to avoid telling lies.
B.Ways to promote friendship.
C.Reasons for making friends.
D.Reasons for lies and solutions.
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Make good use of your time in class. 【小题3】 Listening carefully in class means less work later. Taking notes will help you remember what the teacher says.

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【小题5】 You will probably discover many others after you have tried these.

A.This will help you understand the next class.

B.You probably think you will never be a top student.

C.Don’t forget to set aside enough time for entertainment.

D.No one can become a top student unless he or she works hard.

E.There are other methods that might help you with your study.

F.Take advantage of class time to listen to everything the teacher says.

G.Make full use of spare time to take note of what the teacher says in class.

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【小题2】 Every major city and many smaller cities have running communities. They are quite organized and willing to help. They will help you see your running goals through.

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A.Join a group.
B.One step at a time.
C.Bring a friend along.
D.Most of you will have no problem finding a great race.
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F.There are so many activities people would rather be doing than running.
G.You will get the chance to see the seasonal change and breathe in fresh air.

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Three layers(层)work wonders.

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A sweater is a good choice. The most important layer is the outer clothes, which should be waterproof(防水的)and windproof.

【小题3】.

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Have a heater.

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A.Grow a crazy beard
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D.That will keep you comfortable
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How to clean your dirty laptop

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Gather your supplies

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Start with the inside

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Wipe down the outside

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