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   I strongly believe that if a child is raised with approval,he will learn to love himself and will be successful in his own way. Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son in the third grade and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math lines. I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better. He sat but seconds later,as if he didn't even notice he was doing it,he got up again. I was getting discouraged,but then it hit me. I started noticing his answers were much quicker and more precise when he stood up. Could he be more focused while standing up?

This made me start questioning myself and what I had been raised to believe. I was raised to believe that being a quiet,calm child was a sure way to success. This child would have the discipline(自制力)to study hard,get good grades and become someone important in life.

Now those same people perhaps come to realize that their kids are born with their own sets of DNA and personality, and all you can do is loving and accepting them. As parents, throughout their growing years and beyond that, we need to be our kids' best cheerleaders, guiding them and helping them find their way.

I have stopped asking my son to sit down and concentrate. Obviously, he is concentrating just in his own way and not mine. We need to learn to accept our kids' ways of doing things. Some way may have worked for us but it doesn't mean we need to carry it through generations. There is nothing sweeter than being individual and unique. It makes us free and happy and that's just the way I want my kids to live their own life.

【小题1】Time and again, the author got his son seated in order to make him _______.
A.pay more attention to his study
B.keep polite in the room
C.finish his homework on time
D.get right answers
【小题2】Inspired by the case of his son, the author began to doubt _______.
A.the importance of parents
B.the old form of education
C.the relationship between kids and parents
D.the good habits of some kids
【小题3】The author has stopped asking his son to sit down because ________.
A.he has changed his traditional ideas
B.his son wants to be unique
C.his son doesn't follow his advice
D.his son's DNA is different
【小题4】Which of the following would be the best title of the passage?
A.Friendship between generations
B.Adults' influence on teen growth
C.Kids' success in their own styles
D.Parental help with teens' study
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同类题1

   Immigrant children are often highly motivated and have ambitious parents. And these clever, knowledge-hungry youngsters often achieve higher results than the rest of the classmates.

In 1954, the United States opened its borders to an immigrant from Syria. His son, Steve Jobs, became one of the most creative entrepreneurs(企业家).In the current refugee crisis, that might look like a fairy tale, but it is not that unbelievable.

While immigrant youngsters might face cultural, social and economic disadvantages, the top 10% of 15- year-old students with an immigrant background in the United States did just as well as the top 10% without an immigrant background, as measured by Pisa, an international test.

In fact, when considering social background, these high-achieving immigrant teenagers were almost a school year ahead.

This doesn't only happen in the United States. In 13out of the 37 countries with comparable data, including the United Kingdom, the top 10% of immigrants were at least 10 points ahead of the non-immigrant students in Pisa, after considering social background.

These highly motivated students, managing to overcome the double disadvantages of poverty and an immigrant background, have the potential(潜力)to make exceptional contributions to their host countries.

On average across all countries, top performing immigrants and non-immigrants reached similar levels of performance on the Pisa mathematics test. Many immigrants seem determined to make the most of any opportunity that arises. Their children also seem ready to take on an academic challenge. Alongside the Pisa are questions about students' willingness to try to solve more complex problems. First-generation immigrants, including in the UK, are more likely than average to want to stretch themselves and try to answer more difficult problems.

The OECD's research shows that in most cases immigrant students and their parents hold an ambition to win the matches, and in some cases they go beyond the expectations of families in their host country. For example, parents of immigrant students in Belgium, Germany and Hungary are more likely to expect that their children will go to university and get a degree than parents of students without an immigrant background.

【小题1】Why is Steve Jobs referred as an example?
A.To criticize the policy of the United States.
B.To prove immigrant children caused all the refugee crisis.
C.To agree that immigrant children could get along well with others.
D.To show immigrant children could make better achievements than those in their native countries.
【小题2】According to the passage, cultural, social and economic disadvantages in immigrant youngsters
A.are all the questions from Pisa
B.exist only in the United Kingdom
C.are objective factors for the children to face
D.make the children hard to catch up with their classmates
【小题3】What does the underlined words "stretch themselves" in Paragraph 7 mean?
A.Make themselves longer by pulling.
B.Extend their knowledge or ability.
C.Occupy a large area.
D.Show off themselves.
【小题4】What can be inferred from the OECD's research?
A.All the parents hope for their children's achievements.
B.Parents play an important role in their children's getting over the difficulty in study.
C.Parents' cleverness results in their children's achievements.
D.Immigrant children's achievements result from a strong drive for success.

同类题3

The Hunan Satellite TV(HNTV) show “Where are we going, Dad?” is a big hit. Many famous stars brought their children to a strange village alone, and they had to spend 72 hours with their children there. The program fully showed us a modern version of the “how to be a good father”. As the young parents today are too busy to take care of their children, this new form of “Lost on the way” played by nanny Daddy and cute kids triggered(触发)a lot of people’s emotional resonance(共鸣). Both the kids and their parents will find that their hearts are being drawn closer. But this kind of feeling has just proved that there is a big spiritual barrier between the modern parents and children.
The TV shows like “Children are hard to support!”, “Where are we going, Dad?”, “hot mom” and “cute kids” are becoming more and more popular. All of these show the new parents’ confusion in children’s education and the appeal for the balance between career and family.
In real life, on the one hand the young parents feel helpless because they are too busy to accompany their children under the pressures of work and life; on the other hand they continue to do so. The data collected by HNTV shows that nearly two-thirds of their audience are female, among whom 36% are aged from 25 to 34.We can imagine such a scene that one evening a young mother is watching the show with her young children, while her husband is still at work or trapped in socializing, or maybe is just playing computer games in the bedroom. The story of a child without the company of father is still going on. In fact, it is sometimes the same to mothers. In a modern family, it is often the old who take the responsibility of raising a child. The participation of mother in the children’s education is also very low.
It is just this kind of confusion where the parents have gone in the modern family education, and where the parents will guide their children to go that “Where are we going,Dad?” shows us. If a child wants to grow up healthily and safely into a modern citizen with independent personality and free spirit, it is very important for him or her to follow the parents who serve as their first teacher. Maybe this is the real reason why such kind of TV programs could get hot. The truth is that children will go where their parents go; and society will go where the children go.
【小题1】In raising a child in modern society, parents should ________.
A.play computer games with their children
B.keep their children at home to avoid socializing
C.balance well between family and career
D.break down the barrier between children and teachers
【小题2】Which of the following can be inferred in the passage?
A.Parents shouldn’t entirely leave the education of children to the old.
B.36% of the audience of the program are female aged from 25-34.
C.The program shows us the confusion where the parents and children will go to play.
D.In a modern family it is often mothers who are responsible for raising a child.
【小题3】Which one is the best title of the passage?
A.Confusion Behind “Where are we going, dad?”
B.Modern Education is Important
C.Nanny Daddy and Cute Kids
D.New problems in Modern Children’s Education
【小题4】What attitude towards modern family education does the author express in the second paragraph?
A.Proud.B.Worried.
C.Optimistic.D.Indifferent.