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   Over the years, I've received a lot of advice from friends and family, trained professionals and books on how to get along with others and build strong relationships. Most of it is insightful(有见地的) and effective but when I'm caught up in the moment, I find it hard to apply what I've learned. This is especially true when it involves a multi-step process.

After analyzing many methods and experimenting in my own interactions(交流), I've found one simple guideline that has helped me strengthen every one of my interpersonal relationships. This simple easy-to-remember tip is: Make the other person feel important.

No one likes to feel small and most conflicts(冲突)occur when you make others feel unimportant whether you plan to or not. The key to getting along with almost anyone is to avoid actions that diminish others and replace them with actions that build up others. Actually,you can strengthen your relationships with many actions.

When you interact with someone, give him your undivided attention. Don't look around to see what else is going on or check your phone or watch. Take time to listen and respond  accordingly to show  you're engaged. Make the other person feel like he is the most important person you’re meeting with.

Nothing will make someone light up more brightly than showing genuine interest in him. Be curious and ask specific questions based on what you hear. The more questions you ask, the better the interaction will go but keep in mind that you must be sincere. If you try to fake it, people can tell.

When it is possible,show that you consider the other person remarkable. Find opportunities to speak highly of this person to others as often as you honestly can. One trap to avoid is making others feel  more important by putting yourself down. This is never helpful so it's important that you lift others up in a way that respects everyone including you.

【小题1】What does the underlined word“diminish” in Paragraph 3 probably mean?
A.Take charge of.B.Speak highly of.C.Think poorly of.D.Make use of.
【小题2】Which of the following should be avoided when you are listening to others?
A.Being responsive.B.Paying attention fully.
C.Getting genuinely curious.D.Pretending to be interested.
【小题3】What does last paragraph warns against?
A.Being too modest.B.Being sharply critical.
C.Playing tricks on others.D.Looking down upon others.
【小题4】What is the author's purpose in writing this article?
A.To offer some advice on getting along with others.
B.To criticize the professional books.
C.To thank his friends for their advice.
D.To improve his personal relationships.
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   Even if your school provides healthy foods,it can be easy to give in to your desire(渴望)and pick a less healthy choice when you are feeling really hungry. How do you take control of it?【小题1】 Here are a few reasons for you to pack your lunch or snacks at least twice a week:

Do you ever wait in the lunch line only to find that when you get to the front,you don’t like what they are serving?So you reach for pizza again. 【小题2】 Bringing your own lunch also lets you control exactly what goes into the food you eat.

It does not hurt to enjoy an occasional(偶尔的)serving of pizza and hot dogs. 【小题3】 A packed lunch a couple of times a week means you can enjoy some favorites you might not find at every school—like your mom’s chicken soup or some crisp apples.

If you have a big game or activity after school,plan a lunch and snacks that combine lean proteins with carbohydrates(糖类). 【小题4】

Pack healthy snacks so you don’t feel tempted to step off campus for a fast—food lunch,or hit the corner store for a chocolate and a soda!Put the money you save on such snacks aside.

In a word,whether you pack your lunch or eat in the cafeteria,what is important is that you make healthy choices. If you are concerned that your cafeteria does not offer enough healthy options,get involved in trying to make changes. 【小题5】

A.Take a packed lunch to school!
B.A healthy packed lunch lets you avoid the lunch line.
C.Most schools are trying hard to offer the best food.
D.Remember when your mom or dad used to pack your lunch?
E.Ask a teacher or someone in food service for advice on how to get started.
F.But if you’ re always eating these foods, your body probably needs a change.
G.They can give you lasting energy and keep you going through the late afternoon.

同类题2

Empathy(同情),the Key to Being Kind

In science class,your teacher tells everyone to find a partner for a project. Out of the corner of your eye,you notice one girl sitting alone and not making eye contact with anyone. You think about asking her to be your partner,but you're afraid people will think you're uncool. You don't reach out. 【小题1】

Empathy is being able to understand and actually feel what someone else is feeling. For some people, this comes naturally; for others, it takes a bit more work. 【小题2】When you practice being empathetic, it gets easier to make kindness a part of your everyday life. If you can understand why people are feeling down, you'll want to help them. Here are some ideas that can help you.

【小题3】Someone not being able to find a group in class might not seem like a big deal--but part of being kind is noticing when someone seems sad, hurt or uncomfortable. After all, you have to notice how people feel in order to feel empathy and want to help them!

When you're trying to make kindness second nature, really getting other people's feelings is important. Whenever you find someone might be feeling lonely or sad, put yourself in his shoes. 【小题4】 Didn't you wish someone would reach out to you? If someone had offered you a few words of comfort, wouldn't it have made you feel so much happier?

So, when you find people around you who are feeling down next time, do not hesitate to put yourself in their shoes and reach out to them with a kind gesture. 【小题5】 There is always a time when you expect others to relate to you and feel what you feel.

A.And your kindness will be finally rewarded.
B.Think about a time when you felt that way.
C.But empathy is super important to being kind.
D.Be open to learning more about what you don't understand.
E.One way to practice empathy is to pay attention to the people around you.
F.However, you never know showing empathy may make all the difference to her.
G.You don't have to have a similar background to someone else to feel empathy for them.

同类题3

   Nobody likes a fool. Developing a sense of humor is part of becoming a mature, emotionally healthy individual. Laughter is good for the soul, builds friendships and reduces stress. It serves as the glue for social situations and as an icebreaker for sadness and boredom. If you've ever been told to"lighten up"or"chill out", you should try to develop your sense of humor.
Forgive the accidental. A sudden fall is humorous not because we like to see people fall, but because it surprises us. From a spilled water glass in a meeting to Aunt Rae's teeth coming off in the Thanksgiving turkey, the embarrassment(尴尬)of accidents can be reduced by humor and a helping hand. After making sure that nobody is hurt, give a giggle rather than a scolding.
Look for the unexpected. The kid who used to look at you with his eyes closed during a test had the idea. Parents who serve green eggs and ham to their children on graduation day get the idea. Unexpected actions lighten an atmosphere and relax people.
Learn to laugh with your kids. Most of what children say and do is funny. Help them learn that accidents are sometimes funny and sometimes occasions for joining in and helping another human being. By sharing laughs and attempting to explain humor, you develop your sense of humor, as well as helping kids develop their own sense of humor.
【小题1】If you've ever been told to "lighten up"or"chill out", it means ______.
A.you are humorousB.you are blue
C.you lack humorD.you are foolish
【小题2】According to Paragraph 2, when a little accidental matter happens to somebody, the right choice should be ______.
A.to deal with it carefully at once
B.to forgive it in a cheerful atmosphere
C.to blame him for his carelessness
D.to laugh at him for his funny behavior
【小题3】In the author's opinion, if your mother serves green eggs and ham to you on your graduation day, she is ______.
A.boringB.serious
C.considerateD.humorous
【小题4】What is the best title for the passage?
A.How to Develop a Sense of Humor
B.Ways to Become a Healthy Individual
C.The Function of Humor
D.Proper Attitudes Toward Humor

同类题4

   Penguins are the number-one attraction for many visitors to Antarctica. If you go on a ship that is allowed to make shore landings, you may see them. But to get a close look at penguins, you have to be smart.

First of all, keep in mind that Antarctica’s visitor rules require that you remain at least five meters away from the penguins in order not to disturb them. You could easily become responsible for the death of a little penguin or the destruction of an egg if your too-close presence should disturb a penguin parent.

If a penguin is trying to move away from you, you must stop what you’re doing and back off even if you’re farther than five meters away. However, the rules don’t prevent a curious penguin from approaching within five meters of you — as long as the bird makes the move, not you.

Little penguins, in particular, are quite curious. I’ve seen several lucky tourists who were astonished to find that little penguins came right up to them. If a penguin comes extremely close to you, remember that you are not allowed to touch or hold it.

Here are more tips for getting close to penguins.

Ignore the smell: where penguins live is filled with guano(海鸟粪)and the smell takes some getting used to.

Be quiet because loud noises make penguins nervous. Fast or sudden movements signal meat — eating animals to penguins, and they react accordingly, so slow down when you walk around them.

Since it may take half an hour or more before the penguins get used to you, you need to be patient. Put away your camera — too often people are so focused on getting the pictures that they forget to look with their own eyes, but most of your most memorable experiences in Antarctica will be marked in your mind, not on a roll of films.

【小题1】What will happen if visitors disturb penguins according to Paragraph 2?
A.Visitors may step on a little penguin.
B.Penguin parents may break their eggs.
C.Visitors are easily attacked by penguins.
D.Penguin parents may attack other animals.
【小题2】When a penguin is trying to move away from you, you’d better ____________.
A.step backB.try to stop it
C.go after it quietlyD.keep five meters away from it
【小题3】If a penguin comes very close to you, ____________.
A.you may hold it
B.you may touch it gently
C.you should stay where you are
D.you should walk away carefully
【小题4】The author advises visitors to Antarctica to ____________.
A.ignore loud strange noises
B.take as many pictures as they can
C.allow penguins to get used to them
D.stay away from meat-eating animals

同类题5

   Cowboys, policemen, princesses and superheroes are all characters kids choose to be on any given day. Putting on a play can be a fun activity that lets them act out their favorite characters as well as use their artistic ability to create the stage.

Best of all, they will be able to use their favorite line “ look at me” as the audience sits down to enjoy the production.

Help your kids decide on a play they would like to act out. Use the Internet or the library to find scripts (剧本) for older reading kids. For younger kids, they can act out a favorite story or a fairy tale. Of course, you could always help them write their own scripts.

Decide how many characters are needed. Invite neighbors and friends to be in your play or let your kids play more than one character. Make sure you teach them to change the way they look, move and speak so the audience can tell the difference.

Search for costumes and props (道具) supplies. Find clothes from your closet or attic (阁楼) , or go to a garage sale. Help everyone make a mask or put on makeup to represent their characters.

Get creative. Make tickets, invitations, movie posters and props for your kids’ play. You can even decorate a curtain and hang it in front of the stage. Set up chairs for the audience.

Choose your music. Pick something that goes with the theme of the play. Ask someone to play the piano or have the kids make up songs and help them make homemade instruments.

Rehearse the play. The more the play is practiced, the better it will be. Try starting early in the summer and practicing once a week. Set out a snack after rehearsal and make it light-hearted and fun. Then perform the play at the end of the summer vacation.

Invite the audience to sit down and enjoy the play.

【小题1】Which of the following characters may not be chosen by kids?
A.Policemen.B.Princesses.
C.Superheroes.D.Beggars.
【小题2】What can we learn from the passage?
A.Putting on a play can improve kids’ imagination.
B.Kids of different ages should choose the same script.
C.A kid can act out different characters in the same play.
D.Different costumes and props are not important on stage.
【小题3】The underlined word “ Rehearse” has the closest meaning to “___________”.
A.researchB.review
C.practiceD.remember
【小题4】Which is the best title for the passage?
A.How to Help Kids to Put on a Play
B.How to Give Kids Useful Advice on Performances
C.How to Get Kids Interested in Performing
D.How to Teach Kids to Show Their Character