How did your friendships begin?【小题1】. Asking about the homework in class or complaining about your tired legs after playing in a soccer game. Or you find your best pal by accident. The following is a four-step guide to small talk.
1. 【小题2】
Begin by talking about the surroundings, such as the weather outside or the room you are in. The purpose is to show the other person that you are willing to make a conversation.
2. Looking for topics
At this point, you and your conversation partner need to find common ground. This is a good time to ask questions or to refer back to things you've said or heard earlier. 【小题3】. The other person is probably just thinking of something to say at this very moment.
3. Expanding the topic
The goal is to keep the conversation going. At every stage, you should be careful not to talk too much. But don't let the other person dominate (支配)the conversation either. 【小题4】.
4. Ending politely
When ending a conversation, let the person know you'll be leaving soon, express your appreciation and set the stage for a future conversation. For example, you could say, "I really must be going soon, but I had a great time chatting with you. 【小题5】. Here's my phone number. Call or text me if you know of any other movies you think I might enjoy. "
A.Getting started |
B.Introducing yourself. |
C.Don't worry if it gets quiet |
D.Small talk is where all your relationships begin |
E.Most of them started with small talk on a random day |
F.I really enjoyed hearing your opinion about that new movie |
G.If that starts to happen, mention something about yourself when he or she takes a breath |