Having a roommate can be one of the best experiences in college or, easily, one of the worst. It all depends on whether you have a good relationship with your roommate or not. Follow the advice to avoid the common mistakes that turn good roommate relationships bad.
◇ 【小题1】
Communication is key. If something happens, sit down with your roommate and have a face-to-face conversation. I’ve seen roommate relationships fall apart because something happens and instead of talking to each other, the two start complaining about their roommates behind their backs. 【小题2】
◇ Don’t expect to be best friends.
Some roommates become the best friends, and some don’t. Don’t put pressure on yourself or your roommate, especially when you first meet. 【小题3】 And if your roommate doesn’t end up being your best friend, don’t worry.
◇ Ask before you take.
This applies (适用) to food, clothes and anything else. If you want to keep a relationship going, show your roommate that you have respect for what is his or hers by asking first. 【小题4】
◇ Clean up after yourself.
This should be done without saying. Don’t be lazy. Or, at least, don’t bury your roommate in your clothes and garbage. Most people I’ve come across in college are dirty and untidy. 【小题5】 But putting your stuff in order will help you avoid conflict.
A.Talk things out. |
B.Always be honest. |
C.Even if you both agree to share everything, you should still ask. |
D.So you need to think twice before you help your roommates out. |
E.This creates nothing but embarrassing situations and unhappiness. |
F.Remember, you’re trying making a new friend, not to frighten your roommate. |
G.You don’t need to have all the time spent cleaning your room and keeping it organized. |