Living with a roommate can be a great experience as many roommates become lifelong friends. However ,roommates living together under the same roof for a long time unavoidably have conflicts(冲突) with each other. 【小题1】To prevent this from happening to you,each conflict should be handled in a productive,healthy way.
1.Set a time for a discussionOnce conflicts occur, you need to set up a time to discuss the conflict. 【小题2】 They may think about any problems they want to discuss. It also allows for a better discussion as both roommates will most likely enter the discussion fairly calm.
2.Make rules for a discussionBefore discussing the actual conflicts, set up some rules to guide the discussion. For example, each roommate is allowed to bring up one problem at a time and the other roommate has a chance to respond to it before another one is brought up. Making rules beforehand can prevent a screaming match from breaking out. 【小题3】
3.Point out good things about roommatesYou can use your discussion to point out to your roommates their great advantages and specific things you like about them. While this won't solve the conflict, it can help your roommates be more understanding of your point of view and more willing to compromise(妥协).
【小题4】Once dissatisfaction has been said by both parties you should develop a roommate agreement that is written down. This agreement should discuss what the rules are as well as what results exist for breaking them. For example,roommates having a conflict about overnight guests may compromise to allow overnight guests only on weekends or guests on weekdays leaving by 11 p. m. 【小题5】 .
A.Talk about your problems openly |
B.Come up with a written roommate agreement |
C.Being honest can avoid unfriendly discussion |
D.This provides both parties a chance of preparation |
E.And disaster can strike when a conflict never gets settled |
F.A result may be that anyone who breaks the rules pays $5 |
G.This is because both sides know they will have an opportunity to speak |