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How to Listen to a Teen's Complaints

As your child reaches his teen years, he's likely experiencing a conflict(冲突)between his social and family lives. This often causes frequent complaining(抱怨). 【小题1】By listening to your teen's complaints in an active way, you make your relationship better and allow for better joint decision-making.

【小题2】You can see complaints from your teen as natural and positive, though the actual content of what he says might be negative(负面的). Believe that listening to your teen's complaints is a chance to know your teen better. By psychologically preparing yourself in this way, the conversation will go forward more easily.

Accept your teen's feelings. Understand that your teen's complaining behavior might be wrong but that his feelings are never wrong. Recognize that negative emotions are natural and do not easily fall under the control of teens or even adults. Note that your teen is at least handling his negative emotions in the right way—through words. 【小题3】

Listen patiently and carefully. 【小题4】Listen for the words in his complaints, such as "I am sick of this" or "It's unfair to me". This often shows his feelings. Through body language or eye contact, show your teen you are listening to him carefully.

React to your teen's complaint . 【小题5】 If you disagree, explain why. Finish the conversation by praising him for coming to you and expressing himself.

A.Do you think your reply is right?
B.Allow your teen to express his dissatisfaction.
C.Prepare yourself to listen to something negative.
D.This is normal but not something parents should ignore.
E.Parents should figure out what causes his complaint.
F.If you agree with his complaint, discuss ways to solve the issue.
G.However, keep in mind that accepting his feelings does not mean you accept his complaints.
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同类题1

   Holding on regret is like dragging (拖) the weight of the past with us everywhere we go. It consumes our _________, leaving less available for life in the present _________ we are constantly feeding an old issue. This attachment can _________illness the same way watering a dead plant creates decay (腐烂).We know that _________ new and beautiful can grow in its place if we only prepare the soil and plant the right seeds. We also know that we create our lives from our _________, so focusing on the past may actually recreate a situation in our lives where we are _________ to make the choice again and again. We can choose to move _________right now by applying what we have learned to the present and perhaps even sharing with others, _________ the energy into something that is constructive and creative for ourselves and others.

Forgiveness can heal _________. In meditation (冥想), we can ____________discussing the issue with the self of our past and ____________our forgiveness for the choice. ____________, we can ask for ourselves' forgiveness for keeping them locked in that space of judgment for so long. We may also want to ask for ____________from anyone else who may have been ____________and perhaps offer our forgiveness. By replaying the event in our ____________, we can choose a new ending using all that we now know. Imagine that you have actually gone back into the ____________ and made this change, and then say goodbye to it. ____________your former self with a hug and bring the forgiveness and love back with you to the present. Since we are usually hard on ourselves, it is amazing how ____________ healing it can be to offer ourselves love.

Keeping our minds and our energy fully in the present allows us to fuel our ____________ and emotional well-being today. This action frees our energy to create the dreams we dream for the future. By ____________responsibility and action in the present, we can let go of the past.

【小题1】
A.resourceB.fuelC.timeD.energy
【小题2】
A.becauseB.afterC.untilD.although
【小题3】
A.developB.causeC.cureD.treat
【小题4】
A.anythingB.everythingC.somethingD.nothing
【小题5】
A.thoughtsB.performanceC.affectionD.goals
【小题6】
A.instructedB.remindedC.forcedD.warned
【小题7】
A.onB.awayC.upD.down
【小题8】
A.persuadingB.transformingC.pushingD.tricking
【小题9】
A.painB.anxietyC.angerD.regret
【小题10】
A.enjoyB.understandC.imagineD.finish
【小题11】
A.beggingB.offeringC.buryingD.attaining
【小题12】
A.In allB.In factC.In caseD.In return
【小题13】
A.willingnessB.forgivenessC.happinessD.gentleness
【小题14】
A.teasedB.greetedC.forgottenD.affected
【小题15】
A.handsB.bodiesC.mindsD.hearts
【小题16】
A.futureB.presentC.beginningD.past
【小题17】
A.ReleaseB.ExchangeC.SupplyD.Share
【小题18】
A.uselessB.bitterC.powerfulD.slow
【小题19】
A.physicalB.facialC.soundD.poor
【小题20】
A.possessingB.takingC.denyingD.displaying

同类题3

How teens can stay fit

Any type of regular physical activity can improve your fitness and your health.【小题1】

Exercise should be a regular part of your day, like brushing your teeth, eating and sleeping. It can be in a gym class, joining a sports team, or working out on your own. Keep the following tips in mind:

【小题2】A good attitude is important. Find an activity that you think is fun. You are more likely to stick with it if you choose something you like. A lot of people find it's more fun to exercise with someone else,so seek a friend or family member to be active with you.

Take it one step at a time.【小题3】For example, walk or ride your bike to school. Get on or off the bus several blocks away and walk the rest of the way. Use the stairs instead of taking the elevator.

Get your heart pumping. Whatever you choose ,make sure it includes aerobic (有氧的) activities that make you breathe harder and increase your heart rate. This is the best type of exercise because it increases your fitness level and makes your heart work better.【小题4】Examples of aerobic activities are basketball, running, or swimming.

Don't forget to warm up. Do  some  easy exercise or stretch (伸展) before you do any physical activity.【小题5】It is also important to stretch out after you exercise to cool down your muscles.

A.It also burns off body fat.
B.Stay positive and have fun.
C.Make running a everyday habit.
D.Small changes can add up to better fitness.
E.The most important thing is that you keep moving!
F.This warms your muscles up and may help protect against injury.
G.Do the activity as often as possible, but don't exercise to the point of pain.

同类题4

   What's the easiest way to stay warm in the super cold?【小题1】. At least that's what Santa Claus told me.

Over Christmas, Dennis and I went to Finland. We brought back some tips for keeping warm in a cold temperature.

Three layers(层)work wonders.

Start with the base layer, which sits right on your skin: choose something absorbent(有吸收力的).【小题2】.

A sweater is a good choice. The most important layer is the outer clothes, which should be waterproof(防水的)and windproof.

【小题3】.

You lose heat from every millimeter of uncovered skin, which was the biggest lesson I learned on the trip. My whole body was well covered. But I missed one spot: my face. So it often felt like the wind was going to blow my nose off.

Exercise and don't just stand still.

When it's cold, exercising may be the last thing you feel like doing, but be smart.【小题4】. When we first got to Finland, we were freezing. But after a couple of minutes jumping around, we felt less cold.

Have a heater.

You may want to turn it on all the way up, but it's best to keep it between 18 and 20 degrees.【小题5】. Remember not to create a huge difference between inside and outside.

A.Grow a crazy beard
B.Cover every bit of your skin
C.The key is what you layers are
D.That will keep you comfortable
E.Don't forget to keep your hands and feet warm, too
F.The middle layer keeps your body heat from getting away
G.Take a walk, faster than your normal speed, and you will feel the difference