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   Living and dealing with kids can be a tough job these days, but living and dealing with parents can be even tougher.

If I have learned anything in my 16 years, it is that communication is very important, both when you disagree and when you get along. With any relationship, you need to let other person know how you are feeling. If you are not able to communicate, you drift apart. When you are mad at your parents, or anyone else, not talking to them doesn’t solve anything.

Communication begins with the concerns of another. It means that you can’t just come home from school, go up to your room and ignore everyone. Even if you just say “Hi” and see how their day was for five minutes, it is better than nothing.

If you looked up the word “communication” in a dictionary. It would say “the exchange of ideas, the conveyance (表达)of information, means of communication such as a letter or a message”. To keep a good relationship, you must keep communication strong. Let people know how you feel, even if it's Just by writing a note.

When dealing with parents, you always have to make them feel good about how they are doing as a parent. If you are trying to make them see something as you see it, tell them that you’ll listen to what they have to say, but ask them politely to listen to you. Yelling or walking away only makes the situation worse.

This is an example: one night, Sophie went to a street party with her friends. She knew she had to be home by midnight after the fireworks, but she didn’t feel she could just ask to go home. That would be rude. After all, they had been nice enough to take her along with them. Needless to say, she was late getting home. Her parents were mad at first, but when Sophie explained why she was late, they weren’t as mad and let the incident go. Communication is the key factor here. If Sophie’s parents had not been willing to listen, Sophie would have been in a lot of trouble.

Communication isn’t a one-way deal: it goes both ways. Just remember: if you get into a situation like Sophie’s, tell the other person how you feel-listening is the key factor to communication.

【小题1】In the writers view, dealing with parents is__________than with children.
A.more difficultB.easier
C.more uninterestingD.more interesting
【小题2】The main idea of the second paragraph is____________ .
A.the importance of friendship
B.to make your feeling known to others
C.the importance of communication
D.the disagreement between generations
【小题3】The example in this passage proves that____________ .
A.Sophie is very polite to her parents
B.Sophie's parents are willing to listen to her
C.explanation is the best way to solve a problem
D.communication is the solution (解决办法) to misunderstanding
【小题4】All the following statements are correct except ____________.
A.If you don’t agree with others, you'd better let them know
B.It is better to say “Hi” to others than say nothing
C.If you are not able to communicate, walk away
D.Communication is a two-way deal
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同类题1

The Hunan Satellite TV(HNTV) show “Where are we going, Dad?” is a big hit. Many famous stars brought their children to a strange village alone, and they had to spend 72 hours with their children there. The program fully showed us a modern version of the “how to be a good father”. As the young parents today are too busy to take care of their children, this new form of “Lost on the way” played by nanny Daddy and cute kids triggered(触发)a lot of people’s emotional resonance(共鸣). Both the kids and their parents will find that their hearts are being drawn closer. But this kind of feeling has just proved that there is a big spiritual barrier between the modern parents and children.
The TV shows like “Children are hard to support!”, “Where are we going, Dad?”, “hot mom” and “cute kids” are becoming more and more popular. All of these show the new parents’ confusion in children’s education and the appeal for the balance between career and family.
In real life, on the one hand the young parents feel helpless because they are too busy to accompany their children under the pressures of work and life; on the other hand they continue to do so. The data collected by HNTV shows that nearly two-thirds of their audience are female, among whom 36% are aged from 25 to 34.We can imagine such a scene that one evening a young mother is watching the show with her young children, while her husband is still at work or trapped in socializing, or maybe is just playing computer games in the bedroom. The story of a child without the company of father is still going on. In fact, it is sometimes the same to mothers. In a modern family, it is often the old who take the responsibility of raising a child. The participation of mother in the children’s education is also very low.
It is just this kind of confusion where the parents have gone in the modern family education, and where the parents will guide their children to go that “Where are we going,Dad?” shows us. If a child wants to grow up healthily and safely into a modern citizen with independent personality and free spirit, it is very important for him or her to follow the parents who serve as their first teacher. Maybe this is the real reason why such kind of TV programs could get hot. The truth is that children will go where their parents go; and society will go where the children go.
【小题1】In raising a child in modern society, parents should ________.
A.play computer games with their children
B.keep their children at home to avoid socializing
C.balance well between family and career
D.break down the barrier between children and teachers
【小题2】Which of the following can be inferred in the passage?
A.Parents shouldn’t entirely leave the education of children to the old.
B.36% of the audience of the program are female aged from 25-34.
C.The program shows us the confusion where the parents and children will go to play.
D.In a modern family it is often mothers who are responsible for raising a child.
【小题3】Which one is the best title of the passage?
A.Confusion Behind “Where are we going, dad?”
B.Modern Education is Important
C.Nanny Daddy and Cute Kids
D.New problems in Modern Children’s Education
【小题4】What attitude towards modern family education does the author express in the second paragraph?
A.Proud.B.Worried.
C.Optimistic.D.Indifferent.

同类题2

Grandpa’s Investment Pays Off

When I was a student, my family went through a few rough financial years. We _______, but with much effort and many worries.

I had a pick-up truck that was _______ breaking down and the thought of the 600 km drive to school in it was a(n)_______ one. As I drove away from home one day, my uncle walked up. I stopped and he _______something onto my dashboard(仪表板).

He leaned against the window, speaking softly. “Years ago,” he said, “when I was a _______ student myself your grandfather once did this to me. I _______ one day I would return the _______. And now I have.”

Then he _______ without looking back, and I _______ he did so in order to hide his emotions.

A few miles later I opened the __________. It contained a few bank notes. It was a gift __________ more than two decades later to a second generation; it is almost like a full circle, __________ I’m the only one who bears my grandfather’s name. The amount(金额)was not large. Twenty years ago it had been __________ to buy a full trolley of groceries,or a few tanks of fuel. At this moment it was just a(n)__________, something to express his good intentions. But my uncle was jobless at the time and I almost had no money. Therefore for both of us, it was a(n)__________ amount.

I paid it forward some years later to another poor boy with an old car, __________ the amount for inflation(通货膨胀). As far as I can __________ that boy has been the only one I’ve told this __________ to-until now. I can only __________ that one day he will pay it forward too.

I couldn’t help but feel that Grandpa made a good __________ all those years ago.

【小题1】
A.got byB.came outC.arrivedD.survived
【小题2】
A.stillB.foreverC.neverD.ever
【小题3】
A.interestingB.tiringC.idealD.worrying
【小题4】
A.knockedB.threwC.movedD.lifted
【小题5】
A.smartB.poorC.hard-workingD.naughty
【小题6】
A.imaginedB.promisedC.requiredD.warned
【小题7】
A.boxB.truckC.giftD.award
【小题8】
A.walked intoB.walked outC.walked onD.walked away
【小题9】
A.sensedB.decidedC.desiredD.admitted
【小题10】
A.doorB.windowC.envelopeD.truck
【小题11】
A.receivedB.offeredC.madeD.returned
【小题12】
A.ifB.becauseC.whenD.though
【小题13】
A.niceB.enoughC.commonD.useful
【小题14】
A.tipB.fortuneC.gestureD.image
【小题15】
A.typicalB.disappointingC.meaningfulD.average
【小题16】
A.increasingB.reducingC.changingD.emphasising
【小题17】
A.rememberB.expectC.relateD.complain
【小题18】
A.thoughtB.eventC.storyD.happening
【小题19】
A.hopeB.guessC.realizeD.suppose
【小题20】
A.choiceB.investmentC.planD.preparation

同类题3

   This is the time of the year when I feel the memories of the small town and country days come alive!In October each year,we planned to spend a weekend with our grandparents in Michigan. Riding by fields already harvested for the winter,we could still see remains of summer corn stalks. Smoke would fill the air as we drove through the country. Chimney smoke reminded us the area we were visiting was colder than the city and fireplaces in homes were heated as the months would soon turn to cooler winter days.

While riding along the country road,we saw the trees stand tall and many fallen leaves lie on the ground. And we could see the birds of the season,the pheasants,and watch as they flew in the sky flapping(扑动)their beautiful wings to a hidden area away from the eyes of a hunter. On arriving,our grandparents always had a decorative pumpkin with a smile. It might be weeks before Halloween,but Grandpa grew a supply of pie pumpkins and cooked the seeds with salt for us to eat.

Often the small town would have a homecoming parade(返校节游行)on Saturday morning. We'd walk two blocks to the main street where the school band would start off the festivities. Store owners would all come out to watch the parade. Church women's groups would have tables along the sidewalk to raise money. Children played together and adults talked. What fun it was!

And early in the morning,Dad would meet some men. In an area,they waited for pheasants to fly.

Although pheasants tasted good,I secretly hoped they would let the beautiful birds fly away. They belonged to the blue sky.

As time goes by,all becomes more precious to me. When I married and raised my family,fall trips became a yearly event. Whenever I drive along a country road, I often picture scenes from the small town where my grandparents live in Michigan.

【小题1】The memories of country days made the author feel_______________
A.exhaustedB.cheerful
C.anxiousD.dull
【小题2】We can learn from the chimney smoke in the country that________
A.people cooked in the field
B.people burned fallen leaves
C.there was a fire accident somewhere
D.people used fireplaces to warm themselves
【小题3】Paragraph 3 is mainly about____________
A.the scenes of the homecoming parade
B.the history of the homecoming parade
C.the function of the homecoming parade
D.the organizers of the homecoming parade
【小题4】Why did the author's dad and some men wait for pheasants to fly?
A.To enjoy their beauty.
B.To feed them.
C.To study how they fly.
D.To hunt them.

同类题4

   I was surprised when I received a short message from my father wishing me a happy birthday.

I had _____ to hear from my mother,my grandmother and my other relatives,but never from my father. Lying in bed,_____ of my father flooded back.

When I was a little boy,I regarded my father as a(n)_____  able to do anything. _____ ,things slowly began to _____ .The more I learned,the more I doubted what he said. The gap between us _____ and,at last,I didn't even like communicating with him.

My father,in my mind,had no _____ in talking with me. Dinner was the only time we were together. He had no time to watch TV with me. He would tell me to ask my mother _____ I needed something. He even refused to answer my _____ when I phoned from school. I got ______ the changes. I thought that perhaps my father no longer ______ me.

Over time, however, I began to wonder whether my ______ was right. One day, my mother told me that each time I called, my father was always ______ beside her. Suddenly, I hated myself for my ______ behavior toward him.

I planned thousands of times to ______ to my father. In the end, however, I was always too embarrassed about what I had done.

But that Saturday, I was so ______ by his short message. I ______ then that my father's love for me had never disappeared. I decided to send a ______ “Thank you, my dear father.”

Two days later, when I returned home, my mother told me that my father had been so ______ when he received my reply. She said he had ______ from morning till night. At that moment, I felt truly happy.

【小题1】
A.expectedB.intendedC.plannedD.wanted
【小题2】
A.opinionsB.memoriesC.remarksD.responses
【小题3】
A.instructorB.teacherC.heroD.friend
【小题4】
A.HoweverB.OtherwiseC.ThereforeD.Besides
【小题5】
A.improveB.changeC.developD.appear
【小题6】
A.disappearedB.declinedC.remainedD.grew
【小题7】
A.interestB.effortC.chanceD.courage
【小题8】
A.becauseB.ifC.whyD.unless
【小题9】
A.lettersB.e-mailsC.questionsD.calls
【小题10】
A.fond ofB.ashamed ofC.familiar withD.accustomed to
【小题11】
A.helpedB.supportedC.lovedD.missed
【小题12】
A.behaviorB.attitudeC.mannerD.idea
【小题13】
A.complainingB.listeningC.objectingD.bothering
【小题14】
A.casualB.reasonableC.coldD.compulsory
【小题15】
A.apologizeB.writeC.explainD.agree
【小题16】
A.surprisedB.confusedC.touchedD.pleased
【小题17】
A.imaginedB.wonderedC.realizedD.relieved
【小题18】
A.wishB.cardC.giftD.reply
【小题19】
A.upsetB.happyC.satisfiedD.nervous
【小题20】
A.waitedB.sighedC.hesitatedD.smiled