材料：婷婷是七年级的一位女孩，最近她觉得有些烦恼。她和好朋友柳天时说出了一些心里话：我很不喜欢爸妈干涉我的事，可是我碰到“大麻烦”还是渴望爸妈给我击主意；我觉得自己长大了，可还是经常做傻事，为此会莫名其妙发脾气……。

阅读以上材料，回答下列问题：

古诗词鉴赏，阅读下面这首诗，然后回答问题。
                                                                                                      墨梅
                                                                                                  王冕（元）
                                                                                 我家洗砚池头树，朵朵花开淡墨痕。
                                                                                 不要人夸颜色好，只留清气满乾坤。
     【注释】①墨梅：水墨画的梅花。②洗砚池：写字、画画后洗笔洗砚的池子。

图为“北半球局部地区海陆分布模式图”。读图，完成下列问题。

    Crying marriage? Surprising, isn't it? Actually, the custom of crying marriage____ (exist) a long time ago in many areas of Southwest China's Sichuan Province, and remained in fashion until the end of the Qing Dynasty. Though not so popular ____before, the custom is still observed by people in many places, especially Tujia people,____ view it as a necessity of the marriage procedure.

    It is very much the same in different____ (place) of the province. According to elderly people, every bride had to cry at the wedding. Otherwise____ bride's neighbors would look down upon her as a ____(poor) educated girl and she would become the laughingstock of the village. In fact, there were cases in which the bride ____ (beat) by her mother for not crying at the wedding ceremony.

    In a word, crying at the wedding is a way to set off the____ (happy) of the wadding through falsely sorrowful words. However, in the ____ (arrange) marriages of the old days of China9 there were indeed quite a lot of brides who cried over their ____ (disappoint) marriage and even their unhappy life.