一个南方孩子，刚到北京的时候，由于口音以及个子矮小，常常被人欺负。外婆看着心疼，对母亲说：“你总要管一管，去找找校长或者其他孩子的家长。”母亲瞟了孩子一眼，问了一个孩子根本不可能回答的问题：“为什么那些孩子只欺负你，却不欺负别人？”

母亲和外婆的最大分歧在于，母亲坚持认为不要给孩子任何可以依赖的幻想，要告诉孩子真相——你不是最优秀的，你不是最好的，这个世界上有比你更强的人，你想要过更好的生活，要自己争取，即使身为孩子的母亲，也没有义务为孩子提供所要的一切。你有本事，就自己去挣；没有本事，就不要抱怨。

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      My grandmother is a fifty-three-year-old woman. She loves gardening and plants a lot of flowers.She likes animals because she thinks they are cute. And she really enjoys cooking but the dishes don't taste good. She doesn't like sports at all.

      My grandmother has two pretty big eyes and long brown hair. She really looks beautiful. She always has a bright smile on her face. We all think she's also very generous and likes to help others.

      My grandmother is very popular with her friends and her grandchildren. She often tells stories to us. She gives us a lot of happy time. But sometimes she is strict with me. She said she couldn't go to school when she was young. So she hopes that I can get into a better university. I love my grandmother and hope she will be healthy and happy forever.

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