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                                                                                        人生需要一种化解
①金庸小说《天龙八部》中，武功最强的是一位无名老僧，他轻描淡写的几招就把数位绝顶高手全部打败。无名老僧曾这样阐释过：练功者每练成一项少林绝技的同时，自己的身体都会遭受莫大伤害，并将有生命危险，所以，每练一种武功，都需要学习相应的佛法来化解其中的戾气。最终，是越慈悲的人，武功越是高强。
②想来，这位老僧道出了一个涵盖人生的大道理：人生中的任何事情都需要一种化解。
③我们的情绪需要化解。郁闷时，需要发泄来化解；伤心时，需要眼泪来化解；失意时，可一醉方休化解胸中块垒；仇恨时，则需胸襟与笑容来化解。化解后，心灵才会平衡，心绪平和，然后，人生会重新进入阳光地带。
④我们的身体也需要化解。每天静坐室内，或写着文字或面对着电脑屏幕，慢慢地，思维迟钝，视力下降。时间久了，身体的健康就会出现问题。这时，就需要以动“治”静。走出房间，来到自然中，用绿色养眼，用空气润肺，让鸟语叫醒耳朵，借花香恢复嗅觉。经此化解，再回到学习或工作中去，我们必会精神百倍，心情舒畅，思维灵活，工作更加高效。
⑤几天前看到一则消息，是说比尔·盖茨将从微软帝国转向慈善世界。这也是一种化解，社会财富的总量是不变的，一些人攫取了过多的财富，另一些人的财富必然会减少，进而造成贫富不均的社会现象，随之而来的是仇富等社会问题。这时，像比尔·盖茨这样的富翁就会选择慈善来化解危机，以和谐社会关系，让别人认可自己。
⑥人生离不开化解，就像生命离不开阳光和空气。不懂化解的人，人生观必然畸形，人生道路必将褊狭，这样的人生必然存在危机；不懂化解的人，会拘泥不化，执迷不悟，钻入牛角尖、走进死胡同，以致自己四处碰壁，寸步难行，永远无法窥得人生的另一番境界，无法体会人生精彩有趣。
⑦化解，是一种人生智慧，懂得化解之道，就会于山重水复之际，走出迷津，豁然开朗，突见柳暗花明。化解，更是对某一件事件或某一生命时段的校正与反思。懂得化解之道，人生就有所悟，有所得，精神修养就达到一个新的境界。这时，我们离成功也更近一了。                                                          (选文略有改动)

    We all love college reunion(再聚). I feel very lucky to have been able to 1my 25th anniversary reunion. The meals were2welcomed. The celebration was inspiring,3 an overview of the past years. And the 4of my four years on campus were satisfying and5.

    One of my favourite parts was 6about the lives of my classmates. Their7lives-families, relationships-and also their professional work. There's the classmate who is an organic farmer and a leader in the effort to 8 other farmers about organic farming skills; the classmate who9over her family's power plant; the classmate who 10her own company; the classmate who went to a(n)11school and now works as a delivery nurse. All are inspirational. What they also 12 is a commitment to learning, leading, challenging and contributing, all things we learned the value of in college.

    Then there is our classmate who passed away in January 2017. He shared the commitment to all the 13listed above, as well as to the value of adventure and positive thinking. He was missed14 words. As a class, we 15him on Saturday evening and as a college, we did honor to him, along with other classmates who have passed away in the past five years, at a memorial service on Sunday morning. I was honored, on16 of our class and our college, to read his name and 17a candle for him at the service. This classmate was an18throughout his short life.

    I have been 19 on my 25th reunion and on my college days and all the days since. I am 20for the lessons I have learned so far. And I am inspired.

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