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        ①张飞在一家饭店打工,嫌工资低不干了。他跑去找老板讨要20 天的工资。老板说他有两天没上班,只给18天的工资。他认为那两天是正常休假,不该扣自己的工资。张飞在下班时拦住了老板。老板不同意,张飞抓住摩托坐架就是不相让。老板开着摩托就走,把张飞拖了四十多米。结果张飞成了植物人,躺在医院里没了意识;而老板砸进了十几万还看不到尽头。

        ②看着《第一时间》,我被这则新闻惊呆了。我们常说,退一步海阔天空,忍一时风平浪静。为什么事到临头,就忘了“让”是一种大智慧呢?

        ③让是一种必要的修养。人的挫败感往往是在自认为受伤或者吃亏时产生的,并由此腾起无明业火或者心生报复。这往往是我们忽略了反省造成的。遇到问题,如果我们想一想,它是什么原因引起的?自己有没有过错?争会有什么结果?让又会有怎样结局……这时,再看它,你就会发现矛盾没那么尖锐了,怒气也会渐渐平息。

        ④面对得失荣辱,学会退一步,你不但会对自己释怀,还会善待他人。《弟子规》有言:“财物轻,怨何生;言语忍,愤自泯。”把钱财看轻一点,就不容易怨恨;对别人的言语多些宽容,就会少很多愤怒。心胸宽广了,能容能让了,还有什么样的坎儿不能跨越。

        ⑤让是一股迂回的力量,“手把青秧插野田,低头便见水中天。六根清静方为道,退步原来是向前。”布袋和尚这首诗对退让做了形象化的说明——退让表面看是在后退,其实它是在后退中向前。

        ⑥让是一种非凡的智慧。封建时代,许多功臣难以善终,但郭子仪却是一个例外。他凭什么做到这一点呢?让。权臣鱼朝恩派人挖了他祖坟。他没有借机报复,而是对着皇帝哭诉道:“臣可能因为长期在外主持军务,部下众多,治军不严,下属摧毁别人坟墓的事是常有的。这是为臣的不忠不孝,招致老天的谴责,不是人患所造成的。”这样的忍让,还有谁能寻找到击垮郭子仪的手段呢?

        ⑦退让是成熟睿智的气度,是一种大智慧。如果我们对芝麻点的小事睁一眼闭一眼,不去斤斤计较,我们就能远离狭隘、自私、顽固,获得坦然、淡泊、悠远;如果我们立足于全局,放眼于未来,我们就能过得太平轻松、安稳自在,拥有自己美好的生活。

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    It was dangerously cold. A few drivers slipping and sliding off the road and back on again had cut deep ruts(车辙)in the mud. And the ruts became frozen solid. The drum of our truck's aging engine worried us.

    Trees and bushes heavy with snow bent to form an icy tunnel. We inched along the scary route as Howard grasped the steering wheel(方向盘)tightly, trying to keep the truck in the ruts. We were now riding through a nightmare with no going back. I kept praying the truck would not quit.

    However, the engine's coughing grew worse. We came to a bumping stop. Hot tears ran down my face. We noticed a small house off in the distance. “I will go for help.” Howard's words ruined my common sense and panic took over. We would take the children — we would walk to that house together!

    But the snow was deep, and our two children, asleep in the cab, were too heavy to carry. My husband convinced me to let him go alone. If no one was home or they didn't answer the door, he would come back and we'd try to hike out to a main road. For now, it was safer in the truck. I wish I could say I have faith, but when he walked away, I was mad at the world.

    It seemed as if hours had passed before I heard a familiar voice and a kind laugh of another man as they approached in the snow. The older fellow invited us to go up to the house where his wife was waiting. Two wide-awake kids moved across the seat, ready for adventure. Their voices and laughter carried in the cold night air. When we finally got close, a cheerful woman opened the door. Warm air and the smell of hot buttered popcorn and chocolate drew us in.

     Relieved, my prayers were heard!