At the beginning of the 20th century, many people thought that the family was falling apart—__________, they thought it was dying． （   ）

①师傅领进门，修行在个人，老师是外在因素，学习全靠自己独学       ②我们要有主动参与、勤学好问的态度

③真诚、恰当地向老师表达自己的观点和见解                                           ④与老师分享自己的学习感受、学习成果

    Today is a nice day! The sun is shining. The birds are singing! Many people are p laying in the park! They are very happy! Look, the three girls are dancing! There are two boys flying the kite! There is a boy under the tree. He is listening to music. Some men are fishing. I love this day!

受西方文明的影响，孔子的儒家思想今天遇到了无比强劲的对手。儒家思想还有存在的依据吗？请以正方身份参与辩论，表明你的观点并举例分析。【注：广执同学请用本学期《论语十则》中的语句作答】

反方：儒家思想糟粕多于精华。其宣扬的中庸之道缺少创新和进取精神，其“劳心者治人，劳力者治于人”的思想为封建统治者的剥削行为制造了理论依据。

正方：____。