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So many of us hold on to little complaints that may have come from an argument ,a misunderstanding,the way we were raised,or some other painful events. Stubbornly,we wait for someone else to reach out to us — believing this is the only way we can forgive orrekindlea friendship or family relationship.
A friend of mine,recently told me that she hadn't spoken to her son in almost three years. She said that she and her son had had a disagreement about his wife and that she wouldn't speak to him again unless he called first. When I suggested that she be the one to reach out,she said,“ I can't do that. He’s the one who should apologize. ” After a little gentle encouragement,however,she did de­cide to be the first one to reach out. To her amazement,her son was grateful for her willingness to call and offered an apology of his own. As is usually the case,when someone takes the chance and rea­ches out,everyone wins.
Whenever we hold on to our anger, we turn“ small stuff”问题)”into  really“ big stuff” in our minds. We start to believe that our positions are more important than our happiness. They are not. If you want to be a more peaceful person you must understand that being right is almost never more important than allowing yourself to be happy. The way to be happy is to let go,and reach out. Let other people be right. This doesn't mean that you're wrong. Everything will be fine. You'll experience the peace of letting go,as well as the joy of letting others be right.
You'11 also notice that,as you reach out and let others be “right”,they will become less defen­sive and more loving toward you. They might even reach back. But,if for some reason they don't, that's okay too. You '11 have the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your part to create a more loving world,and certainly you'11 be more peaceful yourself.
【小题1】The underlined word “ rekindle” in Paragraph 1 probably means “    ”.
A.recoverB.develop
C.acceptD.replace
【小题2】In the author's opinion, we hold on to our anger often because we think  .
A.we can turn small issues into big ones
B.our positions are higher than others
C.our own opinions matter most
D.others will be less defensive
【小题3】The best thing to do after a quarrel is to .
A.let go of our own rights
B.realize that you are wrong.
C.expect others to give in
D.apologize to others first.
【小题4】What is the main idea of the passage?
A.People should keep peaceful when facing small stuff.
B.Reaching out and apologizing wins one peace and happiness.
C.We should tell apart small and big stuff in our daily life.
D.It's necessary to enjoy our friendship and family relationship.
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同类题2

   I was born in New York City. My first seven years were spent in Manhattan, and then we moved to the Bronx. As a child with a strong ___for knowledge, I went to a public school and received a good ___education there.

At the end of my high school I decided to major in science and, in particular, ___. One of the ___factors may have been that my grandfather, whom I loved dearly, died of cancer when I was 15. I was ___motivated to do something that might eventually ___a cure for this terrible disease.

With great efforts and help from my parents, I ___graduate school at New York University in 1939. I was the only female in my graduate chemistry class, and ___my Master of Science degree in chemistry in 1941.

I was doing my research into ___with other scientists. When we began to see the results of our ____in the form of new drugs which filled real ____needs and benefited patients in very ____ways, our feeling of ____was immeasurable.

Over the ____, my work became both my vocation and avocation(业余爱好). ____, I became an enthusiastic photographer and ____. I have traveled fairly widely over the world, but there still remain many places for me to explore. ____major interest is music and I am an opera lover. I also ____concerts, ballet and theater.

In my ____career I was promoted frequently, and in 1967 I was appointed Head of the Department of Experimental Therapy, a position which I ____until I retired in 1983.

【小题1】
A.feelingB.desireC.tasteD.worry
【小题2】
A.furtherB.higherC.basicD.adult
【小题3】
A.politicsB.physicsC.mathD.chemistry
【小题4】
A.decidingB.typicalC.interestingD.available
【小题5】
A.primarilyB.raciallyC.highlyD.unwillingly
【小题6】
A.make upB.result fromC.account forD.lead to
【小题7】
A.enteredB.leftC.searchedD.built
【小题8】
A.droppedB.gainedC.exchangedD.used
【小题9】
A.musicB.photographyC.historyD.drugs
【小题10】
A.gamesB.accidentsC.effortsD.behaviors
【小题11】
A.medicalB.immediateC.luxuriousD.extra
【小题12】
A.dangerousB.noticeableC.kindD.common
【小题13】
A.safetyB.guiltC.tirednessD.reward
【小题14】
A.weekendsB.monthsC.yearsD.holidays
【小题15】
A.ConsequentlyB.HoweverC.OtherwiseD.Similarly
【小题16】
A.writerB.dancerC.travelerD.composer
【小题17】
A.OtherB.AnotherC.The otherD.Some
【小题18】
A.enjoyB.dislikeC.directD.plan
【小题19】
A.actingB.amateurC.teachingD.professional
【小题20】
A.heldB.choseC.changedD.found

同类题3

第一节完形填空(共20小题;
阅读下面短文,从短文后各题所给的四个选项(A、 B、C 和 D)中,选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
I loved working with my dad, but I hated a summer job he gave me. He owned a small____in Bank Street. In his shop, the most recently____person got the worst job, and the boss’ son was also____.
I didn’t want to spend hours____the frost on the ceiling of the walk-in freezer, and it was the Saturday afternoon’s job that I hated most. We received fresh____every day. Chicken sat in wooden boxes and was____with crushed ice. During the week, the ice and the blood of the chicken slowly leaked into the container____the chicken, creating its bloody smell.
There was only one____to get rid of the blood and wash the container: hold my____and carefully slide the container from under the chicken, as I tried not to____the contents over my clothes, and then____into the drain(下水道).
Soon, students who have cut lawns, painted houses, worked in offices,____maybe even worked in the butcher’s will____to school. Some will have great memories____others will come back with____ones.
Looking back, I think my father could have____me from my weekly hell. However, my dad, who’d dropped out of school to help support his family after his father died, was a teacher for me____He knew treating me____from his other employees would be an unfair thing. Most importantly, he taught me to those who do the hard and____tasks in life.
For the next six summers, I returned not as the boss’ son, but as one of other guys, and I cleaned the dirty container every Saturday afternoon.
【小题1】
A.groceryB.butcher’sC.chainD.book
【小题2】
A.hiredB.invitedC.receivedD.trained
【小题3】
A.interestedB.includedC.affectedD.offered
【小题4】
A.looking intoB.tearing upC.cleaning upD.carrying on
【小题5】
A.fruitB.vegetableC.chickenD.grain
【小题6】
A.surroundedB.impressedC.accompaniedD.cooked
【小题7】
A.aboveB.besideC.belowD.under
【小题8】
A.chanceB.wayC.placeD.reason
【小题9】
A.armB.noseC.breathD.head
【小题10】
A.touchB.noticeC.findD.splash
【小题11】
A.breakB.divideC.emptyD.allow
【小题12】
A.andB.soC.butD.or
【小题13】
A.adaptB.goC.returnD.apply
【小题14】
A.whileB.whenC.sinceD.because
【小题15】
A.excitingB.goodC.amazingD.unpleasant
【小题16】
A.forcedB.sparedC.treatedD.pushed
【小题17】
A.at heartB.in factC.in caseD.at home
【小题18】
A.kindlyB.carefullyC.differentlyD.warmly
【小题19】
A.witnessB.appreciateC.hurtD.influence
【小题20】
A.vitalB.dirtyC.easyD.funny

同类题4

What I like to advise people is to find out what it is that makes them happy. What do you love to do? If you truly love what you do just go ahead and try to make a living by doing it. People will throw money at you to do it. But you will always have to work hard at it. I have to draw every single day of my life. I have to draw about 20 ideas. My advice is to put aside a certain amount of time every day and make you draw or whatever, especially when you don’t feel like it. Only in this way will you be able to perfect your talent.
The first step you take is to go to your local library and ask for the publications issued in the current years. When you get these publications, try to find the names of the top people concerned and their presidents. After you find these, write down their names and addresses. Keep this list and update it every year. Next thing you want to do is to create at least 40 cartoons. Get a grid(格子) from one of the strips in the newspapers, enlarge it to whatever size you wish and draw inside this grid. Now take the best 20 of your ideas and make them into finished pieces. To do this, you would want to copy them in ink because if you were a professional cartoonist, that was what you should do. Now you can reduce the size of the finished cartoons to fit onto a regular comic’s page. By comparing yours with the others already in print, it gives you a good idea of clarity to your cartoon.
The next step is to write letters to presidents of the publication. In the letters, explain who you think would read your work, or in other words, what group do you think you would target. After you complete these, send all of your information enclosed with letters in the appropriate envelope.
Now as soon as you send out these letters, start to create a brand new strip with all new characters. Don’t___________because if your idea gets turned down then you will give up. And always remember. If you receive a rejection from any of them, keep in mind that you are working on something better. You will be working on something new and more exciting and the rejection letter will not have any impact. With this in mind…
【小题1】What is the advice from the writer in the first paragraph when you want to succeed in your life?
A.Stop doing anything until you find something quite suitable for your future career.
B.Put aside a certain amount of time every day to consider how to make a living.
C.Make a living by something that you truly like to do as your profession and work hard at it.
D.Perfect your talent only by drawing some cartoons.
【小题2】The purpose of writing a letter to the president was to ____.
A.get some money to support the later career
B.enclose the information on how to become cartoonists with the letter
C.focus his attention on the work
D.explain who would be the readers of the work
【小题3】The underlined phrase “get married to one idea” in the last paragraph probably refers to ______.
A.having a strong desire to get married
B.fixing all attention on one idea
C.marrying someone is a good ideas
D.refusing one idea to get married

同类题5

   A newly-published study has shown that loneliness can spread from one person to another,like a disease. Researchers used information from the Framingham Heart Study,which began in 1948. The Framingham Heart Study gathers information about physical and mental health,personal behavior and diet. At first,the study involved(使参加)about 5,000 people in the American state of Massachusetts. Now more than 12,000 individuals(个人)are taking part.

Information from the Framingham Heart Study showed earlier that happiness can spread from person to person. So can behavior like littering and the ability to stop smoking.

Psychologist John Cacioppo,at the University of Chicago,led the recent study. He and other researchers tried to show how often people felt lonely. They found that the feeling of loneliness spread through social groups.

Having a social connection with a lonely person increased the chances that another individual would feel lonely. In fact,a friend of a lonely person was 52% more likely to develop feelings of loneliness. A friend of that person was 25%more likely. The researchers said this shows that a person could indirectly be affected by someone’s loneliness.

The effect was the strongest among friends. Neighbors were the second most affected group. The effect was weaker on husbands and wives,and brothers and sisters. The researchers also found that loneliness spread more easily among women than men.

The New York Times newspaper reported that,on average,people experience feelings of loneliness about 48 days a year. It also found that every additional(额外的)friend can decrease loneliness by about five percent,or two and a half fewer lonely days.

Loneliness has been linked to health problems like depression(抑郁症)and sleeping difficulties. The researchers believe that knowing the causes of loneliness could help reduce it.

The study suggested that people can take steps to stop the spread of loneliness. They can do this by helping individuals they know who may be experiencing loneliness. The result can be helpful to the whole social group.

【小题1】As for the Framingham Heart Study we can learn that __________.
A.it was only conducted in 1948B.it involves more than 12, 000 people
C.it was founded by John CacioppoD.it showed that any behavior could spread
【小题2】From the passage, we can learn that __________.
A.the behavior of littering doesn’t spread
B.a lonely person won’t have friends
C.everyone may be affected by others’ loneliness
D.lonely people don’t know the causes of their loneliness
【小题3】Which statement about the spread of loneliness is TRUE?
A.The spreading effect is the second strongest among friends.
B.No spreading effect is found on husbands and wives.
C.Women are more likely to be affected than men.
D.Brothers are more easily to be affected than neighbors.
【小题4】What is the main idea of the passage?
A.Action should be taken to help lonely people.B.People feel lonely for many reasons.
C.Ways to fight against loneliness.D.Lonely people can affect others.