在现实生活中，最令父母焦虑的是“孩子不听话”，叫他向东他偏向西，不让他干他非要干。这种心理的消极作用主要有（ ）
①恶性发展下去，必然使双方都受到伤害 ②妨碍亲情交流，造成心理阴影
③有助于父母更新教育观念 ④增强子女的独立性，学会自我判断
A：①②
B：③④
C：②③
D：①④
根据短文内容，选择正确答案。
Dabing and Xiaowei usually go to school by car. They drive past a cinema, a supermarket and a toy shop. The toy shop is next to the supermarket. Yaya and Xiaoli usually go to school by bus. They go past a bank and a post office. The bank is next to the post office. Longlong usually goes to school by bike. He passes by a police station, a library and a swimming pool（游泳池）.
下面句子读音停顿正确的一项是（ ）
