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有个人请客,看看时间过了,还有一大半的客人没来,主人心里很着急,便说:“怎么搞的,该来的客人还不来就?”一些敏感的客人听到了,心想:“该来的没来,那我们是不该来的咯?”于是悄悄的走了。主人一看又走掉了好几位客人,便说:“怎么这些不该走的客人,反倒走了呢?”剩下的客人一听,又想:“走了的是不该走的,那我们这些没走的倒是该走的。”于是又走了一批。

最后只剩下一个跟主人亲近的朋友,看了这种尴尬的场面,就劝他说:“你说话前应该先考虑一下,否则说错了,就不容易收回来了。”主人大叫冤枉,急忙解释说:“我并不是叫他们走哇。”朋友大为恼火,说:“不是叫他们走,那就是叫我走了。”说完,头也不回的离开了。

这个故事给了我们什么启示?

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①在待人接物中,语言有明显的高下美丑之别,它所产生的心理效应也有天壤之别。②礼仪是一门学问,有特定的要求,在家庭学校和各类公共场所,礼仪无处不在。在家庭生活学校集体生活中,社会交往活动中,都有相应的礼仪要求,如果我们不讲礼仪,不注意场合,就可能伤害别人,也使自己难堪。

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 Foods that are well known to you may not be familiar to people from different places around the world. Tourists and travelers often get to try some unfamiliar food. That is part of the fun of traveling. Here are four people's experiences with foreign food.

David King is a Chinese student in France. “I never had cheese or even milk before I came to France. Cows are seldom seen in my part of China. So there is no milk or milk products. I drank some milk when I first arrived in France. I hated it! I tried cheese, too, but I didn't like it. I love ice cream, though that's made from milk.”

Birgit is from Sweden. She traveled to Australia on vocation. "I was in a restaurant that was special in fish. I heard some other people order flake, so I ordered some, too. It was delicious! Later, I learned that flakes is an Australian name for shark. Now, whenever I see a new food, I try it on purpose. You know why? I remember how much I enjoyed flake.”

 Chandra is a dentist in Texas. She is from India. “ I'm afraid to try new foods because maybe there is beef in them. I'm a Hindu(印度教信徒)and my religion(信仰) stops me from eating meat from the cow. That's why I can't eat hamburgers or noodles with meatballs.”

Nathan is from the United States. He taught for a year in China. “My friend gave me some 100-year-old eggs to eat. I didn't like their appearance at all. The eggs were green inside, but my friends said the color was normal. Chinese people put something on fresh eggs. Then they put them in the earth for three months. So the eggs weren't really very old. Even so, I didn't want to touch them.”