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                                                                                        和桃源诗序【苏轼】
      世传桃源事，多过其实。考渊明所记，止言先世避秦乱来此，则渔人所见，似是其子孙，非秦人不死者也。又云杀鸡作食，岂有仙而杀者乎？……旧说南阳有菊水，水甘而芳，居民三十余家，饮其水皆寿，或至百二三十岁。蜀青城山老人村，有五世孙者。道极险远，生不识盐醢（ｘī醋），而溪中多枸杞，根如龙蛇，饮其水，故寿。近岁道稍通，渐能致五味，而寿益衰，盖其比也。使武陵太守得至焉，则已化为争夺之场久矣。常意天地间若此者甚众，不独桃源。

    Everyone needs friends. But how do you find real friendship and keep it?

    The American writer ，Sally Seamans， tells young students some smart ways to find friends. Sally says founding friendship is just like planting a tree. You plant the seed (种子) and take care of it to make it grow.

    First, you should choose a friend. What makes a good friend? It is not because a person has money or good looks. A good friend should be kind and patient. ⑴For example, if you have a bad day, a good friend could listen to your complaints (抱怨) and do his or her best to help you. To make a friend, you can't be too shy. You should make each other happy and share your lives.

    But things can not always be happy. Even the best friends have fights. What should you do when you have a fight with your friend? You should talk to him or her carefully.

    ⑵Tell him or her how you are feeling, say what your friend did wrong and talk about why you did this or that. Remember that friendship is one of the most important things in your life.

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