由于心里的发育，逆反心里是中学生常见的一种心理现象。这种心理的危害较大。如：我们失去准确的判断力，影响与父母的沟通，无法采纳有效的建议等。下面是客服逆反心理的做法，你认为正确的是（    ）

①换位思考，谅解父母的苦心                          ②自己的事完全由自己做主

③理解的要接受，不理解的要冷静对待          ④如果父母错怪了你，要像原谅自己一样原谅他们

膳食中不搭配蔬菜和水果等食物，长期下去会造成身体缺乏（　　）

阅读下面材料，在空白处填入适当的内容（限填1个单词）或括号内单词的正确形式。

    A man looking at his smartphone while walking across a railway crossing in Nanjing ____ (have) a close knock on Oct 22. He was so ____ (absorb) in his smartphone that he didn't see a train approaching until it brushed past him, ____ (throw) him to the ground. This should serve ____ a warning that people should be aware of their surroundings, especially ____ crossing roads.

    ____ (lucky), the man survived, but the incident forced the driver ____ (stop) the train. An l8-minute delay followed the incident, ____ led to a break in the running of other trains on the route.

    The Smartphone ____ (addict) has spread like an infectious（传染的）disease. It's evident that it will do great harm to society. What's even ____ (bad), some addicts become impatient with relatives and friends.

    Some people blame the smartphone for the sad story, yet in fact people's weakening self-control and self-discipline are to blame.

读《送元二使安西》，“渭城朝雨浥轻尘， 客舍青青柳色新”写出了____、____春天的景象。