有个人请客，看看时间过了，还有一大半的客人没来，主人心里很着急，便说：“怎么搞的，该来的客人还不来就？”一些敏感的客人听到了，心想：“该来的没来，那我们是不该来的咯？”于是悄悄的走了。主人一看又走掉了好几位客人，便说：“怎么这些不该走的客人，反倒走了呢？”剩下的客人一听，又想：“走了的是不该走的，那我们这些没走的倒是该走的。”于是又走了一批。

最后只剩下一个跟主人亲近的朋友，看了这种尴尬的场面，就劝他说：“你说话前应该先考虑一下，否则说错了，就不容易收回来了。”主人大叫冤枉，急忙解释说：“我并不是叫他们走哇。”朋友大为恼火，说：“不是叫他们走，那就是叫我走了。”说完，头也不回的离开了。

这个故事给了我们什么启示？

根据答语填疑问词。

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    The favorite food in the United States is the hamburger, a kind of round sandwich of cooked beef.____At fast food restaurants, people order their food, wait a few minutes, and carry it to their tables themselves. People also take their food out of the restaurant and eat it in their cars or in their homes. At some fast food restaurants, people can order their food, pay for it and pick it up without leaving their cars.

    ____Most of them sell hamburgers, French fries and milkshakes, which are traditionally popular foods among Americans. In addition, there are many fast food restaurants that serve Chinese food, Mexican food, Italian food, chicken, seafood and ice cream.

    The idea of a fast food restaurant is so popular that nearly every kind of food can be found in one. Fast food restaurants are popular. ____

    First, they are not formal restaurants. Customers wear any type of dress when they go to a fast food place.____ People who are busy do not want to spend time preparing their own food or waiting while someone else prepares it. In fast food restaurants the food is usually ready before the customer even orders it. Finally, most food in a fast food restaurant is not expensive. ____ However, they may not be able to afford a more traditional and more expensive restaurant very often.

A. Second, they are fast.

B. Chinese diets are also welcome.

C. In fact, they reflect American life style.

D. They will go to a good restaurant for important guests.

E. The favorite place to but a hamburger is a fast food restaurant.

F. Therefore, people can afford to eat at a fast food restaurant often.

G. There are many kinds of fast food restaurants in the United States.

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