根据短文理解，从A、B、C三个选项中选择最佳答案填空。

    A young father was visiting an old man. They were standing in the old man's garden and  1  children. The young man said, "How strict should parents be  2their children?" The old man pointed to a line3 a big, strong tree and a thin, 4  one. "Please untie the line," he said. The young man 5 so, and the young tree bent(弯曲) over to one side.

    "Now tie it again," said the old man, "but first pull the line tight(紧紧地) so that the young tree is6  again." The young man did as the old man told him. Then the old man said, "It is the same with  7  . You must be strict with them, but sometimes you must untie the 1ine8 how they are getting on. If they are not yet able to stand alone, you must tie the line tight 9 . But when you find that they are ready to stand alone, you can take the10   away."

“每一次都在徘徊孤单中坚强，每一次就算很受伤也不闪泪光，我知道我一直有双隐形的翅膀，带我飞，飞过绝望……”《隐形的翅膀》这首歌很多人喜欢，这里的“隐形的翅膀”主要是指（   ）

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