Questions you should ask yourself when you fail

    The more new things we try the more failure we are likely to have.____. Experiencing failure can be a learning experience and an opportunity for a fresh start. A good way to begin this process is by asking yourself some tough questions.

1）What can I learn from this?

Take responsibility for what went wrong. OK, so it was not all your fault—but some of it was. Successful people don't make excuses or blame others.____ So you should look at the experience objectively(客观地).

2）Do I need to acquire or improve some skills?

Did the problem reveal some lack of skill on your part? How could you learn or improve those skills? Perhaps there are books or courses or people you could turn to.____

3）Who can I learn from?

Is there someone to whom you can turn for advice? Did a boss, colleague or friend see what happened?____. Most people do not ask for help because they believe it to be a sign of weakness rather than strength. It's not. It shows that you are ready to learn and change.

4）What will I do next?

Now draw up an action plan. Will you try something similar or something different? Revisit your goals. Failure doesn't mean you have to give up; maybe you just need to change it in another way.  ____

A. You can now reset your sights on your destination and plan a new course.

B. Make them step stones to future success.

C. They take responsibility for the failure.

D. In fact the only way to avoid failure is to do nothing new.

E. The important thing is how we deal with failure.

F. Make a self-development plan to acquire the skills and experience you need.

G. If they are constructive and supportive then ask them for some feedback (反馈) and guidance.

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    观察欲求深细精确，必须留心各样的事情，不要看到一点就写。“多看看”① ____，而是要全方位地观察，不但要看到事物的现象，②____。学生观察事物，往往只注重那些有较强刺激性部分，③____，比如在描写人物时，着意刻画人物的音容笑貌，而对人物的心理世界和精神状态，却挖掘得不够。

材料一：元朝行省的划界原则，一改前代以山川形便为主的做法，明确以犬牙交错为主导，目的是从根本上消除行省赖以自重的自然地理之险、区域经济之利、一方民众之心，这在中国古代地方行政区划史上具有转折意义。腹里乃中书省的直辖区，地近京畿，位置重要。为了打破太行山之险，让腹里地跨太行山东西两侧，合并山东、山西，河北、蒙古等地。为了打破南岭之险，采取南北纵切的方法，让湖广行省越过南岭而有广西之地，又使江西行省跨过南岭而有广东之地。

——范红军《元代设行省如何加强了中央集权》

材料二：各地财赋集中于行省，行省把大部分财赋解运京师上供朝廷，少部分则与各省留用，其中中央与地方财赋分割比例为7：3……在行政的另一方面——命官权和人事权方面又表现得无甚作为，可以说元代的地方官吏的选用主要由中书省和吏部负责，通常，从七品至九品的地方官吏由吏部“拟注”，中书省参知政事等  审核，每月举行一次。正三品至正七品由中书省“自除”。二品以上则“选自特旨”，由皇帝根据需要选拔。……在军事方面，行省是元代地方诸官府中唯一握有较大军权的机构，但调动行省所属军队的批准权，集中于皇帝一人，行省只能遵照朝廷的号令行事。

——赵军英《论元代行省制在专制主义中央集权中的地位和作用》

材料三：就中国的历史环境具体条件而言，中央集权比地方分权的合理性与进步性明显多一些。……但极端的中央集权很大程度上又是以中央对地方政府“无所分化”和“无所寄任”为基础，是与皇帝专制制度相适应的历史产物，主要是为家天下的王朝大一统服务的。

——李治安《元代行省制的特点与历史作用》

结合材料与所学知识，围绕“行省制在调整中央与地方关系中的作用”自行拟定一个具体的论题，并就所拟论题进行简要阐述。（要求观点明确；史论结合；逻辑严密；表述清楚。）