You may be surprised to see "making sure children never suffer" as a mistake. The following 1 may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering 2 weakness.

    A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly struggling to 3 from its chrysalis（蛹）. He decided to 4 the butterfly. So he peeled（剥开） the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so 5 to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off, into the sky.

    Then he was horrified 6 he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle 7 to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly's struggle to 8 the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.

    Like the little boy9 too often want to protect their children from struggle in the 10 of love. They don't realize that their children need to struggle, to experience 11, to deal with disappointment, and to solve their own problems. Only in this way can children 12 their emotional strength, become strong-willed and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet 13 their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can 14 the ups and downs of life.

    However it isn't helpful either in this case when parents 15 lecture（训斥）, blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers 16 to say, "Stop crying and act-ing like a spoiled boy. You can't always get what you want: These 17 words should be avoided.

    Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, "Don't lose 18. Be brave！You will succeed if you try again."Then comes the tough part — no 19and no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can get over his disappointment and 20 what he can do to get what he wants in the future.