在人生道路上，人们不可避免地会遇到这样或那样的困难和挫折。下列有关挫折的表述，正确的是（   ）
①挫折往往会引起人们心理和行为上的消极反应              ②挫折是人们在从事某种活动、追求某个目标时遇到的障碍和干扰
③挫折的存在具有普遍性，挫折对人具有双重影响          ④挫折并不可怕，可怕的是对挫折的畏惧和不重视 

阅读下面材料，在空白处填入适当的内容(1个单词)或括号内单词的正确形式。

       Suppose you broke a cup or a bowl by accident, how would you deal with the brokenpieces? One day, Alice was washing ____(dish)．Suddenlyshe broke a beautiful plate ____(care)．Onhearing the sound, her father ran out of the study at once to see ____ his daughterwas hurt. ____ his relief, she was fine, so the father comforted her and toldher just to throw the broken pieces directly into the dustbin.

However,Alice said nothing.She picked up the pieces on the floor one by one.She evenlooked everywhere to make sure there were no pieces ____(leave)．Then Alice asked her father for someold newspapers and ____ plastic bag.

           The father felt confused.He wondered what she was going to do.After Alice____(wrap) the broken pieces with newspapers, she put ____(they) into theplastic bag, together with a card ____(say) “ Danger! Broken plate！” Finally, she placed the plastic baginto the dustbin.Not until then did the father realize how ____(consider) hisdaughter was.He learned a lesson from her!