①没有意识到错过，或许能产生一种自足感，但那意味着灵魂堕入了颟顸的渊薮。
      ②能意识到自己错过了什么，在追悔中产生出一种真切而细微、深入而丰厚的情愫，则意味着灵魂具备了升腾的能力。
      ③有的所错过的，还有机会再次相遇，正因为对错过有了痛切的感受，当机遇再次呈现时，你便会有高度的应变力与把握力，也许，那最后的结果，是与其在上次侥幸抓获，不如这回你冷静而成熟地驾驭……恰恰是因为你上次的错过，才导致了你这次的获得硕果！
      ④有的所错过的，时不复返，机不再来，属于永远的错过，但因为你善于细细咀嚼这错过的苦果，竟能从惆怅中升华出憬悟，乃至于酿出诗意与哲理……你的生命，或许反更有厚度；你的心灵，或许反更有虹彩。
      ⑤一念之差中，失之交臂了吗？有时我们虽然错过，只要我们立刻意识到了，并立刻追上前去，力挽狂澜于既倒，我们多半也还可以使错过转化为掌握；问题是我们往往在立即意识到了以后，竟滞涩、凝结住了我们的行动；这样的错过，则几近于过错。
      ⑥错过，即“有所失”，我们要习惯它。
      ⑦错过，也往往构成另一种得，我们要品味它。
      ⑧人生如奔驰的列车，车窗外不断闪动着变幻不定的景色，错过观览窗外的美景、奇景并不是多么不得了的事，关键是我们不能错过预定的到站。
      ⑨我们预定的到站并不等于人生的终点。但在人生的终点上，我们最好能含笑地说：我虽然错过的很多很多，却毕竟把握住了最关键最美好的，这样，“错过”便仿佛是碧绿的叶片，把一生中“收获”的七彩鲜花映衬得格外明艳！

写作训练

【写法借鉴】本诗综合运用多种修辞手法，如星星、萤火虫等，都是比喻的对象；“天上的星星疲倦了的时候”则是恰当的拟人。这些修辞手法的综合运用，增加了诗歌语言的生动性、形象性。

【片段仿写】请你运用比喻、拟人等修辞手法，描写一处自己熟悉的景物。(150字左右)

Common public speaking problems

    The use of “I feel”, “I think” and “maybe”

    In the question-and-answer session of the speaking competition, many contestants began their answers with uncertain expressions like “I feel”, “I guess”, “I hear”, “maybe” and “perhaps”. These words show that the person is only speaking from his or her point of view____

    Work on keeping your answers brief and to the point____ Instead of the empty-sounding “I guess”, using facts, together with a clear conclusion based on those facts, is far more likely to be popular with an audience.

Using only one speaking style

    “Don't stick to the same tone____ For example, when they spoke about their dreams some sounded romatic. Others used humor. Very few used several different styles together. Try mixing more than one style, rather than just sticking with the same one.

    Irresponsible answers

    Public speaking is different from personal conversations. You're responsible for your words____So you should think twice before you talk. Don't belike the student who, when asked about his opinion on book piracy（盗版）, started by saying he supported it.

    Talking around the topic rather than directly answering it

    You should focus on one point and give a clear solution. The key is to work out what question is being asked. Is it asking you to discuss a certain topic or to present your own point of view?

    Use one or two arguments together and give a strong conclusion____

A. It can be boring. Try to mix it up.

B. Also work on delivering them with calmness and confidence.

C. Even though you want to answer quickly, you don't want to sound foolish.

D. This lacks the support of facts and seems not to be reliable for the judges and audience.

E. Remember that judges are not judging you on whether they agree, but on your ability to say what you think clearly.

F. Confidence is extremely important in public speaking as it lets a speaker sound more convincing.

G. Deliberate gestures and affected（做作的）expressions of feelings are improper in a successful speech.

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