要对曾经伤害过自己的人做到宽容与谅解是不可能的。（ ）
Lincheng is a new developing city. There are lots of popular restaurants. Although they are not famous, they are good places to have meals.
Qingteng Yuan
Main dishes: Many different fish, meat and chicken dishes
Specials: Vegetable salad (¥20),
Roast beef (¥48 on weekdays, ¥38 on weekends)
Fruits (Free): Watermelon, apples, bananas, oranges
Tel: 876-2198
Opening Hours: 11:00 a.m.—1:00 a.m.
Ruihai Drinking
Building
Mainly all kinds of meat, pork, beef and mutton.
Specials: Roast pork (only offered on Saturday, ¥50 each)
Drinks are not allowed to take except VIP.
Tel: 897-6543
Opening Hours: 11:00 a.m.—1:30 a.m. (VIP 24 hours)
Rujia Restaurant
Mainly dumplings and noodles.
Specials: Beef and cabbage dumplings (¥5 each on weekdays, ¥4.5 on weekends)
Dumplings can be taken away.
Tel: 432-0945
Opening Hours: 11:30 a.m.—10:00 p.m.
Linglong Sea Food
Mainly sea food.
Specials: Roast fish (¥25 each)
Tel: 287-9056
Opening Hours: 11:00 a.m.—12:00 p.m. (From Monday to Thursday)
11:00 a.m.—2:00 a.m. (Friday, Saturday, Sunday)
有个人请客，看看时间过了，还有一大半的客人没来，主人心里很着急，便说：“怎么搞的，该来的客人还不来就？”一些敏感的客人听到了，心想：“该来的没来，那我们是不该来的咯？”于是悄悄的走了。
主人一看又走掉了好几位客人，便说：“怎么这些不该走的客人，反倒走了呢？”剩下的客人一听，又想：“走了的是不该走的，那我们这些没走的倒是该走的。”于是又走了一批。
最后只剩下一个跟主人亲近的朋友，看了这种尴尬的场面，就劝他说：“你说话前应该先考虑一下，否则说错了，就不容易收回来了。”主人大叫冤枉，急忙解释说：“我并不是叫他们走哇。”朋友大为恼火，说：“不是叫他们走，那就是叫我走了。”说完，头也不回的离开了。
这个故事给了我什么启示？
