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幸福的底线

陈鲁民

       ①俄国作家契诃夫说过:“如果你手上扎了一根刺,那你应当高兴才对,幸亏不是扎在眼睛里。”原以为这只是一种幽默的调侃戏谑,后来才发现,其实这也是一种达观的生活态度和人生智慧。

       ②一次,曾任美国总统的富兰克林•罗斯福家中失窃,损失惨重。朋友写信安慰他,罗斯福回信说:“亲爱的朋友,谢谢你的安慰,我现在一切都好,也依然幸福。感谢上帝。因为:第一,贼偷去的是我的东西,而没有伤害我的生命;第二,贼只偷去我部分东西,而不是全部;第三,最值得庆幸的是,做贼的是他,而不是我。”

       ③作家史铁生曾写道:“生病的经验是一步步懂得满足。发烧了,才知道不发烧的日子多么清爽。咳嗽了,才体会不咳嗽的嗓子多么安详。终于醒悟:其实每时每刻我们都是幸运的,任何灾难前面都可能再加上一个‘更’字。”

       ④他们实际上都是在为幸福画底线,每个人的具体情况不同,底线也就各有不同。幸福其实就是一种感觉,一个总是觉得很痛苦的人,往往就是把幸福的底线划得太高的人,期望值过高,欲望太大,结果与现实产生较大差距,于是痛苦就降临了。譬如说,一个把幸福底线划在得诺贝尔奖上的作家,志向固然远大可敬,但他这一辈子都很难有幸福感,因为这种机会太渺茫了;而一个经常发表小豆腐块文章的业余作家,却常常志得意满,感觉良好,因为他的底线是:文章能发表就是幸福,不拘长短。一个把幸福底线画在富可敌国上的大款,很难心想事成,自然也就无法快乐,哪怕他已经富甲一方;反倒不如那些出大力挣小钱的民工心情愉快,了无挂碍。所以,腰缠万贯的富翁未必就比家境小康的农夫幸福,身居高位的显贵不见得就比街头的小摊贩幸福,学富五车的大学教授不一定就比幼儿园阿姨幸福。归根结底,就是因为他们幸福的底线不同,一个画得太高,很难实现,一个画得较低,很容易达到。

       ⑤总之,把幸福底线画得低一点,稍许努力便可实现,幸福就在身旁。

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    The story began in early December. It was about 3 a.m. and Harrison-Bentzen was panic. “I came out after a student night out and realized I didn't have any battery on my phone. I'd lost my friends,” the 22-year-old told BBC Radio 5. She'd also lost her bank card, she discovered, and she had no money.

    Just then, a homeless man, known only as Robbie, approached the young woman and asked her if she needed help. He reached into his pocket and pulled out all the money he had—loose change amounting to about $4.60. He insisted that Harrison-Bentzen take it to pay for a taxi so she'd get home safely.

    Harrison-Bentzen, a student at the University of Central Lancashire in Preston, England, says she refused to take Robbie's money and found another way to get home. But following her encounter(偶然相遇)with the generous man, she says she couldn't get him out of her mind.

    For the next few days, the student searched for Robbie, driving around the streets with her mom and using social media in an attempt to locate the man. In that time, Harrison-Bentzen says she learned more about Robbie and discovered that he actually had a reputation for helping strangers.

    Finally, after four days of driving around Preston, Harrison-Bentzen found Robbie. She was determined to do something to help change Robbie's life.

    So, earlier this month, the student launched a fundraising campaign in Robbie's name. She explained that she would be spending 24 hours on the streets, so as to “understand the difficulties” that the homeless face on a daily basis.

    Harrison-Bentzen says she had initially(最初)hoped to raise about $780 with her campaign. Her expectations, however, were quickly blown out of the water. As of Thursday morning, 4,800 people have donated almost $50,000.