生活中有这样一种现象：有的男生说话细声细气，性格含蓄内向；有的女生装扮中性，粗犷豪放。对于青春期特有的生理和心理变化，我们应该（    ）

阅读下面的文字，完成下列小题。

                                                                                    清晨我漫步在山坡谷地，

                                                                                    晨光宣泄着永恒的秘密，

                                                                                    山涧里流倘出一条小溪，

                                                                                    她在歌、在唤、在吐露心曲：

                                                                                    生活并非安逸，

                                                                                    它是思念和希冀。

                                                                                    死亡并非哀歌，

                                                                                    它是失望与憔悴。

                                                                                    智者不在言词，

                                                                                    其秘密在言词背后藏nì。

                                                                                    伟人不在高位，

                                                                                    不屑权位者才配享荣誉。

                                                                                   （纪伯伦《小溪，你说什么》节选）