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        Are  you new to experiencing relationships? Well, let me give you advice on having ahealthy and possibly long­term relationship.

____.Do not hide things from them, do not lie. Don't be afraid to say things thatisn't very flattering about yourself. Getting them to trust you is the mostimportant element in any relationship. If there's no trust, there's nothingthere. So please be honest and they'll learn to open up to you.

          Make sure you give them respect. Now respect isn't just simply treating her or himnicely. There' s a lot more to it. You have to learn to adjust to their liking.____  Don't just think aboutyourself, think about what your partner needs out of it as well.

____.Always be willing to help them and give them honesty and positivity at the sametime. Make them feel you are someone they can really count on and build afuture with. This is an important step in a relationship. Your partner has tobe able to count on you when needed.    

Makesure you have a good sense of humor with them. Laughter is the key tohappiness. Laugh a lot with them; joke with them. Laughter may seem silly, butit's the secret to a lot in life. It will keep the sparks alive.____.

      Make  sure the communication is good. This goes along with trust, but alwayscommunicate how you feel, even if it's something that upsets you. Instead ofscreaming, talk to them. ____. It's important to communicate this tothem, not keep it bottled up.

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