家风，是一种接地气的、生活化的“家族式美德”，具有深入人心的无形力量。它可以是做人的道理，也可以是处事的原则，更可以是哲学式的人生态度。它不拘泥于何种领域，也没有家庭贫富之分。它可以是祖上传下来的一本书、一幅字，也可以是爷爷奶奶、爸爸妈妈给自己影响最大的一句话。家风是每个人从小就不断触及的，因此，对一个人的影响是整体和全方位的。从文化角度看，重视家风建设是因为（    ）

①汲取中华优秀传统文化、革命文化和社会主义先进文化的輔神养分，推动核心价值观在家庭中生根

②家风是社会风气的重要组成部分，家风能支撑起全社会的好风气

③文化影响人们的交往行为和交往方式

④全面提高公民道德素质，是社会主义道德建设的基本任务

阅读下面短文，掌握大意，然后从1-20各题所给的四个选项（A、B、C和D）中，选出最佳答案。

        My husband, Bob, died in January 2004. His death was unexpected as well. I 1 condolences(哀悼)from people I hadn't heard from in years: letters, cards, flowers, calls, and visits. I took a bad knock with 2. I was so struggling to3the whys and hows of this terrible thing that had happened to my family, knowing in my heart that there really were no 4. It's just all so sad.

        One message5me deeply. I received a letter from my best friend from sixth6 through high school. We had drifted somewhat since 7 in 1959, as she stayed in our home town and I did not. 8 it was the kind of friendship that could quickly resume even if we9touch for five or ten years.

        Her husband, Peter, had died perhaps 20 years ago at a young age, 10her with deep sorrow and heavy 11: finding a job and raising three young children. She and Pete, 12 Bob and I, had shared one of those rare, close, "love-of-your-life-you-can-never-forget" 13.

        In her letter she 14 an anecdote about my mother who had passed away years ago. She wrote, "When Pete died, your dear mother 15me and said, 'Trudy, I don't know what to say...so I'll just say I love you.'"

        She closed her letter to me repeating my mother's words of so long16, "Bonnie, I don't know what to say...so I'll just say I love you."

        I felt I 17 almost hear my mother speaking to me now. What a 18 message of sympathy! How dear of my friend to cherish it all those years and then 19 it on to me.I love you. 20 words. A gift. A legacy(遗赠物).