Many couples are quite puzzled about this question.How can lovers be devoted to each other for long? Actually, they just complain about their marriage to their partners all the time,not____(know) how to deal with the marriage crisis.

    “Before we were____(marry),my husband was a caring man,“a wife once told me.“It seemed that he would love me till the end of the world.Since we got married,he____(become) a lazy bone.He watches ball games more than he watches me.He has changed so much that I can____(hard) bear him.”

    “Very funny,”answered the husband.“But have you looked at yourself lately?Several years ago,you were very beautiful.Now you wear that old dress.If I've changed from____energetic man to a lazy one,then you've changed yourself from a____(beauty) lady to an ugly one.”This hurtful but childish____(argue) shows how couples, instead of looking for love,may look for all the____(fault) that his/her partner has in their daily life.

    Honestly speaking,how we see our partners often depends more____how we are than how they are.It is a way of seeing.Husbands and wives are not audience____participant observers in each other's life.Remember that the law of lasting love is to look at your lover with love.