家庭出身，会影响一个人的人生走向。富裕家庭物质生活优裕，会导致精神生活远远滞后。这样的家庭教育出来的孩子，缺少与人和谐相处的襟怀。一旦走向社会，会因为自身家庭条件优越而损害甚至践踏他人权益。一个“拼爹”的时代是病态的，一个民众都默许“拼爹”的社会是可悲的。

①物质生活优裕不一定就导致精神生活滞后。

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小强身高1米，可写成1m，也可以写成100cm．

   In one way, it may be thought that failure is a part of life. In another, failure may be regarded as a step towards success.
   The “spider story” is often told as an example of this. Robert Bruce, leader of the Scots in the 13th century, was hiding in a hole on a hill from the English. He watched a spider(蜘蛛) making a web（网）. Bruce is said to have got confidence from this and to have gone on to beat the English. Edison, too, the inventor of the light bulb(电灯泡), made hundreds of models that failed before he found the right way to make one.
   So what? First, always think about your failure. What caused it? Were you in high spirit then? What can you change so that things will go right the next time?
   Second, is the goal you are trying to reach the right one? Try to do some thinking about what your real goal may be. Think about this question: If I am successful in this, where will it get me?” This may help to prevent failure in the things you shouldn't be doing anyway.
The third thing to remember about failure is that it's a part of life. Learn to “live with yourself!” even though you may have failed. Remember, “You can't live with them all.”