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以下是小伟同学在日常生活中的一些表现和存在的问题，请你运动用所学知识分析其表现，帮助他解决存在的问题，并谈谈应该如何与老师沟通。英语老师批评了小伟同学，他就在英语课上经常顶撞老师。

    A young father was visiting an old neighbor. They were standing in the old man’s garden, and talking about children. The young man said,“How strict should parents be with their children?”
　  The old man pointed to（指着）a string (细绳) between a big strong tree and a thin young one.
　 “Please untie (解开) that string.” said the old man. “But first pull the string tight so that（以便于）the young tree is straight again.” The young man did so. He untied the string and only found that the young tree bent（弯）over to one side.
　 Then the old man said,“There, it is the same with children. You must be strict with them. But sometimes you must untie the string to see how they are getting on. If they are not yet able to stand alone，you must tie the string tight again. But when you find that they are ready to stand alone，you can take the string away.”

课外拓展

    翁^①天性孝友，深得父母心。母蚤^②世，事继母无懈，，二弟一妹，翁所成立^③也。尝携妹北上，艤舟^④绝岸，妹戏而前，俄坠水中。翁惊愕，不觉俱坠。其水深不可测，加天寒裘重，没人不见踪迹，观者皆骇。顷之，持妹而出。论者谓有神相云。蜀俗，兄弟壮且婚，多割灶自食^⑤。翁深耻之，然不欲上母弟心志，悉让其田宅。御史^⑥之死网事业，向二毛其施弗究^⑦。翁痛之，作永思堂于家，岁时率子妇祭拜以为常。            （节选自罗玘^⑧《坦然翁传》）

【注释】①翁：坦然翁，姓刘，名山，四川珙县人。②蚤：通“早”。③成立：抚养成人。④艤（yǐ）舟：船泊岸边。⑤割灶自食：指家族内兄弟分家自立。⑥御史：指坦然翁的父亲。⑦向二毛其施弗究：过去御史家供养的老人未能坚持供养到底。⑧罗玘

（qǐ）：字景明，明朝江西抚州南城人。

“一朵鲜花打扮不出美丽的春天，一个人先进总是单枪匹马，众人先进才能移山填海。”雷锋的这句名言给我们的启示是（  ）