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    One of my main concerns when I am helping people achieve their goals ____ (be) how they measure success . I see individuals getting  ____ (frustrate) as they struggle hard for success.

    The main reason is that people allow their definition of success to be determined by someone or something else. We should look at ____ own skills to determine what is successful to us. We should look inwards to determine ____ it would mean for us to be successful in our own mind.

    Evaluating a successful person needs ____ (look) at his pathway to success, his action and his____ (determine). You must set your own course of action, ____ stay on your course. You alone must determine what success means to you. Do what you do to the best of your ability and the rest will take care of itself.

    Here is the ____ (true). Being a success is doing your best, not being the best. Success is not something you become, but it is something you continue being.

    When we get to that point, we will experience a lot more joy and a lot less depression. And that ____ (sound) good to us!

    Remember the great quote from Napoleon Hill, “If you cannot do great things, do small things in ____ great way.”