不少家长乐于为子女“当牛做马”，不仅不让孩子做家务，有的连子女最基本的生活处理项目也承包了，养成了孩子从小饭来张口，衣来伸手，好吃懒做，学习怕苦怕累的不良习惯。这样的家庭教育（   ）

①充分体现了父母之爱的伟大     ②增进了父母与子女之间的感情

③会妨碍孩子健康成长                 ④孩子失去了很多自我锻炼的机会缺乏自理能力

    Ann is my classmate. She comes from New York, and she lives in Shanghai with her parents now. Every morning, she goes to KFC to have breakfast. Sometimes she buys a hamburger for me. She can't speak Chinese well. In the evening, her father often helps her with it. He's a teacher in our school. He can speak Chinese very well.

    Ann thinks the school life(生活)in China is very interesting. Ann likes reading Chinese books because she wants to know more about China. She tries(努力)to talk with her Chinese friends in Chinese. She hopes to speak Chinese well. She is very happy to live in China. She loves people here.