In one way, it may be thought that failure is a part of life. In another, failure may be regarded as a step towards success.
   The “spider story” is often told as an example of this. Robert Bruce, leader of the Scots in the 13th century, was hiding in a hole on a hill from the English. He watched a spider(蜘蛛) making a web（网）. Bruce is said to have got confidence from this and to have gone on to beat the English. Edison, too, the inventor of the light bulb(电灯泡), made hundreds of models that failed before he found the right way to make one.
   So what? First, always think about your failure. What caused it? Were you in high spirit then? What can you change so that things will go right the next time?
   Second, is the goal you are trying to reach the right one? Try to do some thinking about what your real goal may be. Think about this question: If I am successful in this, where will it get me?” This may help to prevent failure in the things you shouldn't be doing anyway.
The third thing to remember about failure is that it's a part of life. Learn to “live with yourself!” even though you may have failed. Remember, “You can't live with them all.”

计算题

下列关于学习的观点正确的是（    ）

①现代社会，学习已成为一种生活方式                                    ②学习能使我们掌握知识，增长才干，不断完善自己，为一生幸福奠定良好基础

③学习能不断提高国民的综合素质，提升一个国家的综合国力   ④学习是人类文明传承和发展的桥梁

谏说之难洪迈

    韩非作《说难》，而死于说难，盖谏说之难，自古以然。至于知其所欲说，迎而拒之，然卒至于言听而计从者，又为难而可喜者也。

    秦穆公执晋侯，晋阴饴甥往会盟，其为晋游说无可疑者。秦伯曰：“晋国和乎？”对曰：“不和。小人曰必报仇，君子曰必报德。秦伯曰：“国谓君何？”曰：“小人谓之不免，君子以为必归；以德为怨，秦不然。”秦遂归晋侯。

    秦伐赵，赵求救于齐，齐欲长安君为质。太后不肯，曰：“复言者，老妇必唾其面。”左师触龙愿见，后盛气而揖之入，知其必用此事来也。左师徐坐，问后体所苦，继乞以少子补黑衣之缺。后曰：“丈夫亦爱怜少子乎？”曰：“甚于妇人。”然后及其女燕后乃极论赵王三世之子孙无功而为侯者祸及其身后既寤则言长安君何以自托于赵？于是后曰:“恣君之所使。”长安君遂出质。

    范雎见疏于秦，蔡泽入秦，使人宣言感怒雎，曰：“燕客蔡泽，天下辩士也。彼一见秦王，必夺君位。”雎曰：“百家之说，吾既知之，众口之辩，事皆摧之，是恶能夺我位乎？”使人召泽，谓之曰：“子宣言欲代我相，有之乎？”对曰：“然。”即引商君、吴起、大夫种之事。雎知泽欲困己以说，谬曰：“杀身成名，何为不可？”泽以身名俱全之说诱之，极之以闳夭、周公之忠圣。今秦王不倍功臣，不若秦孝公、楚越王，雎之功不若三子，劝其归相印以让贤。雎竦然失其宿怒，忘其故辩，敬受命，延入为上客。卒之代为奏相者泽也。

    秦始皇迁其母，下令曰：“敢以太后事谏者杀之。”死者二十七人矣。茅焦请谏，王召镬将烹之。焦数以桀、纣狂悖之行，言未绝口，王母子如初。

    吕甥之言出于义，左师之计伸于爱，蔡泽之说激于理，若茅焦者真所谓剧虎牙者矣。范雎亲困穰侯而夺其位，何遽不如泽哉丨彼此一时也。

——节选自《容斋随笔》